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[quote=GUESTKIWI,522045]I have been living here in China for the last year and a half. I came here because I met a Chinese woman online and I wanted to get to know her a lot better. I came here for a holiday to meet her first and then came back a couple of months latter and we got an apartment together. After four months living together I realized we were far too different from each other and a marriage would never work. It was not only the culture but also our age. I am 10 years older than her and have kids already etc. We wanted different things. So I ended the relationship because that was the right thing to do. I did love her but there was no long term future for us.

A few days latter she came back to the apartment with her friends demanding that I move out. I had prepaid a years rent on the apartment and she had helped me when we moved in by signing the rental agreement that was all in Chinese (Big mistake). I had no choice and had to move out.  I had no place that I could go straight away so I got them to agree to let me live in my apartment for a couple more weeks so that I had time to find a new home. To get them to agree to this I had to agree to leave my new 55" tv and two new mountain bikes and gym equipment etc.

So I learned the hard way about Chinese woman and what they can be like. But like woman from every country not all are the same.

I have moved on and have met another Chinese woman who is wonderful. So different to my ex girlfriend in almost every way. We have been living together in her apartment for the last 9 months and we are planning to get married soon. She is a fantastic woman and I have no regrets about coming to China any more. I know her family very well now and have no fears of them coming to live with us in the future.[/quote]

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