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well, I am so sure that some Chinese forgot why Chinese girls seemed to be attractive to westerners.

As someone said, we Chinese always enjoyed with a traditional value, which is LAO PO HAI ZI RE KANG TOU. It means, a happy or a successful life in China consists of a good wife, lovely kids, and a sweet home. This is the basic and eternal pursing for Chinese guys. Can any westerners independent ladies offer us Chinese guys this future? I am pretty sure most of you cannot.

As for women, you should know that in present China, the standard to judge a successful woman is whether she could balance her own career and her family well, which is the same for men. We Chinese, almost of time, put family and kids at first place. In addition, Chinese traditions requires a woman to XIANG FU JIAO ZI, which means looking after their husbands and cultivating their children, and moreover, she should have her career as well. Maybe you might say what you didn't find one. I have to say, I am proud of my mother and she was as great as what I said.

Therefore, I might answer some questions in some corners.
Why do western guys adore Chinese girls?
Because they can offer want the tired western guys want. They can cure the westerners' wounds.

Why is it rare to see a Chinese husband with a western wife?
Because most Chinese guys know what they want and they know how precious good Chinese girls are. Some of the guys might be fond of the appearance of western girls, but soon they will find they just can not live together easily.

And I want ask,
Why do Chinese guys have to accept all of your western culture?
If a Chinese guy is charming enough to woo a western girl, there is no reason for them not to pursue a gorgeous Chinese girl.
Certainly, I am not saying western girls are not good, but maybe it is hardly to live together. It could be that a Chinese guy is willing to marry a western girl, and of course I will absolute support him.

At very last, please don't think Chinese girls are less independent. They are just willing sacrifice for their lovers. It is kind of romantic gene embedded in most good Chinese girls heart.

If you western guys are interested in getting married with Chinese girls, better to read some Chinese cultural book first, or let your Chinese girlfriend/wife teach you.
It is no harm to learn how to keep the romance between you and your wife.

N.B. Some of you might thought modern Chinese girls don't like this, but they are the minority.[/quote]

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