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[quote=CHYNAGYRL,252333]I like Chinese guys.  I would like marry one with a good heart and a good head on his shoulders.

I used to like Caucasian guys more but now I'm so disappointed, after I saw their behavior in Asia.  When I was in Asia, I saw single white guys in social situations (i.e. at parties, at school).  They get treated like God by the women there,  and I think to myself, what have they done to deserve this?  It's like their social status went up ten-fold by walking into Asia.  And there are a lot of nice Asian guys, handsome ones too.  I feel that Chinese guys might be a little intimidated by Western women -- maybe they don't feel like they have enough to offer?  My good friend from Beijing told me that a number of Chinese men are intimidated by Chinese women, and don't want to marry until they have savings and education, since Chinese women have certain expectations.  (i.e. she said they have low self-esteem).  This is related to Chinese women being emancipated for many years...

Even before the year 2001, the United Nations scale on women's emancipation showed that Chinese women ranked higher than Japanese, Korean, AND American women.

Chinese women  --   #8
Canadian women  -- #8
American women   #22
Japanese              #27
South Korean       # 36

I was very surprised when I saw this, but I suspect it's because Chinese women participate more in politics, in addition to holding jobs and having (at least in big cities) similar opportunities for employment and education as men.  I'm not sure if Chinese women are really as "traditional" as people think...  I actually find them soft on the outside and ambitious on the inside.
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