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[quote=LEONARDO,252461]Mr JCNICLE123,
 
I am just wondering if you are always skeptical about others’ sincere sympathy for the suffered. I am wondering whether you feel gloomy with the state of the world. This world is full of love, care and sympathy.

“Because I can see on your words a sense of opportunistic pleasure as you dissect her words, and the follow up statement of yours.” This is how you feel after reading my post? I am not sure whether you are more insightful than others. Would you please read between the lines please?  
In my post, I quoted the guest32134. Did I change the lady’s intention? I just wanted to criticize the immoral man who betrayed their love and marriage. Maybe, I should admit that I am a little bit sensational or emotional. (I can not force myself to be rational after hearing the painful case.) Hence, the following statements:

“In China, there is a stereotyped mentality about "Western Stuffs and Western Men". It seems that “all the Stuffs made in the West are adorable. Particularly in many Chinese girl’s eyes, Western men are rich, humorous, smart, sexy, virile and gentle. (Of course, there are such kinds of Western gentlemen). However, are all the" Western Men" gentlemanly. Probably not!
There are also "some wolves in sheep’s' clothing". So be cautious!”

However, as a native Chinese, I sincerely tell you that this is the reality in China. Mr JCNIlE123, China is experiencing a transition from the old agricultural civilization to a highly-industrialized nation. The old mentality is being challenged. (Some should be abandoned). Well, there is a tendency that many Chinese take in the western stuffs without any discernment. That is to say, there is a mentality of blind idolization of the West in China. (I am not a conservative. Personally, I value many merits of the western civilization such as equality, democracy and bluntness. My admiration for the western stuff has not mounted to the blind idolization). My intention is to share this truth with Guest32134 and other members in this forum and made more people think more seriously about this issue. Nothing more!!! Did my post contain a sense of opportunistic pleasure? Did I have the need to tease guest32134?Remember, she is one of my beloved compatriots!! I treated her painful case as something happened to my beloved siblings. Personally, I have two beloved sisters. I just hated that kind of person who is wicked, irresponsible and unfaithful, whoever he is a westerner or a Chinese.

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