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[quote=GUEST47191,349617]GUEST32158, 
I totally understand your point.  I can't even stand my own mother, and here we are talking about mother in law.  My mother in law and I are both Vietnameses, and I couldn't stand how she kept me from walking around the house, doing the dishes, feet without socks, and many more right after I gave birth to my first daughter.  I understood she did that for my own good, but she annoyed the hell of me.  I hate to depend on someone. There was a few times my MIL wanted to calm my baby when she was crying, and I said no because I was doing the job, but she insisted.  She pulled my baby girl off my hands...one time I got so pissed, yelled at her. I felt bad after that, and she still has not stopped.

My husband is her only child. I understand that it's his responsibility and support  him to take care of them at the old age.   What annoying me is she wants to take all the credits of rising my baby girl even though we paid her to babysit my 3 months baby while we at work.  Anything good, she takes credit, and anything bad, she pours it on us.  As a mother, I do not like anyone saying that I do not know how to take care my own baby.  My baby girl is perfect. She repeatedly pour anything bad on us, and I told her that I do not like to hear that again.  She got all upset and raised her voice with me while my husband sitting there.  My husband did not say anything. I also raised my voice after she raised her voice with me.  And she blamed that I raised my voice first, and it is not acceptable under her roof.

Back to question about who to save first.

Well, i honestly want my husband to save his mother, and I don't mind to die.  I hope there is a solution to our problem, if not, I will withdraw myself...the sad thing is we just have a baby girl. :-(

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