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[quote=GUEST51834,529978]I'm American and married a Chinese woman.  33 years old.  I'm 40.  Dating was a dream.  Very sweet, sincere and rather subsidiary to me.  We talked about everything, money, family, etc.  All seemed according to plan.  We lived together for several months before the wedding.
Married.
2 months into it she started to say things like, "I don't like your children visiting so much".  I have a custody schedule that I follow and she knew about.  Then she didn't like my cat and forced me to give it up.  Shortly after he's gone she wants to get a new pet together.
Then I find that I'm in violation of so many Chinese customs.  I say hello to her friends when they visit.  That's a no-no.  I went so far as to hug one and never heard the end of it.  Umm, I think in America we hug as a form of greeting or departure.
I need to check my phone at the door and leave it open for her inspection every night.
Then I discover that she is channeling money to another bank account "for her daughter's future".  This was not discussed or decided jointly.

I can go on.  Bottom line, in my experience, Chinese wives are attractive, sexy and good a luring American men.  But they can be very controlling and domineering.  I'd take an extensive test ride before buying the next Chinese model.

Good luck.[/quote]

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