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[quote=GUEST???,??????,531188]For whoever wrote this, thank you. I found your words to ring true with the many feeds of information I have had coming in. I am soon to go to China to marry an 'over 30' woman. We met by way of a coworker. His Chinese wife's best friend. 
I also have stewed over whether I'm ultimately being used for a citizenship in another country. My coworker assures me this isn't the case. I go certainly with trepidation but a healthy dose of reality. You confirmed what I already know of women and Chinese women. Pick your battles. And. Happy wife, happy life. To have a woman in my life that has standards and is concerned with status, is far preferred to someone who cares about neither.
Now I just need to survive a 21 hour flight,  3 hour car ride. Sleep? One day to shop for last minute details. Register for marriage certificate. Dinner with the new in-laws ( whose English is less than my Mandarin). Then a banquet with 50+ people I've never met who don't speak English as a first language. I'm aiming for being mostly upright by the honeymoon. 恭喜您[/quote]

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