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[quote=GUEST94147,452948]I have lived in Vietnam for a long time, and apart of my job is to observe human interaction.
Like with any culture or race you will always get the good with the bad. I completely understand the Australian man looking for a international wife (mostly Asian). About 70% percent of the men I have met through out my travels are general looking for love. The biggest mistake western men can make going overseas looking for a potential wife is the cultural differences. 
Money does come into half of the situations. 
Some Asian families have more money then western families. So the girls don’t give a shit about the money. They want the affection and to live the country to escape the strict parents. The richer the family the stricter they become.

Sadly the girls who think about money and to escape the customs that they are brought up on to live like western girls do. Can you blame them?, they watch alot of T.V these days and want the life style of western girls. To party, have sex with many guys, pretty much anything they like to do.. this is how the young generation see western girls. So girls in west don’t have no idea, and are quick to make assumptions. Get over yourselves, guys have found good women overseas and the girls don’t demand as much as western girls do. So the first thing girls do is jump the gun and label it as wrong for western guys to look for love overseas.. look at yourself before passing judgement on others. How many guys has a western girls had sex with before marriage? Generally a lot. 
Guys my Advice guys is do some research before committing to a relationship. (common sense)

If a girl you are dating ask for money that is a sign. They will use many excuses why they need it, but its most likely not true. Generally Vietnamese girls in Vietnam don’t ask their partner they are dating for money. It's consider to be in polite. Yes pay for the dinners and going out, but don’t feel guilty and give money. Tough love will pay off in the long run trust me.

What you have to remember is a general wage for a factory worker in the provinces is around $200 Australian dollars a month. This is actually enough for the girl to live on for 1 month easy. I do reports all the time both in the North and South. Girls who work in the city get about $300 to $500 AUS dollars a month.. this is really good money and they have a very comfortable life.

To the girls who are born in AUS who have parents who are Viet background think they are Vietnamese.. I have seen over the years AUS born Viet come to Vietnam act like they are natives. The locals laugh at them and think of them as cash cows. IF you don’t live in the country nor are you born from IN the country STOP acting like you know shit.

Guys if you find love overseas then go for it! Its better to love then to never loved at all. Any experience good or bad is an experience worth having. Life would be boring if we didn’t have experiences.[/quote]

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