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Thread: Help....American man just engaged to Chinese woman here in USA on work visa
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[quote=CARL4907,627722]It is the usual scam that Chinese women from outside the big cities come of age and move to the big cities. They have no birth record or identification. In order to get an identity they marry a chinese man and have 1 or 2 children. They are poor so she moves to America to work in massage and scam lonely men. I know this first hand because I fell for the same scam. She was perfect and 14 years younger than me. She would brag to her co-workers that she did not love the silly old man lived with and had sex with several other men while I thought she was at work. I did not give her any money and we were talking of marriage. It will hurt but my best advice is to throw her out and just go to different massage spas; not the same one every time. It always starts the same...are you married; do you like chinese women; what kind of work do you do. Trust me. My heart will be broken for a very long time. She just packed up the 2 or 3 items she kept at the house, never said a word and left. We never argued or fought. She must have got a better "deal" somewhere else.I am sorry for the hurt you are about to go through. It is better now than later. I will check this forum to see if you have other questions I can answer.[/quote]
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