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[quote=FURIOUS,513280]I have a lot of experience with dating and relationships.  I've dated American born Chinese, whites obviously, Latinas, and other Chinese-Chinese women.  I've simply never met a girl like her.  I've learned so much about business and life from her.  She's very smart and business savvy...

...which kinda worries me.  She could be a big manipulator.  As I said in the previous post tho, I have nothing material or status-wise to offer her or be manipulated into giving her.  My only concern is that she may not be faithful...but I have no way to know.  I live 40 minutes outside of the city, we see each other once during the week and then spend the weekends together.  She calls every night before bed.  I don't get the feeling she has cheated on me tho.  Plus she wants me to get a place in the city or move in with her in the near future.

She's SUPER social, so she has tons of male and female friends and clients.  All of her business is conducted over meals at restaurants in the city, so it's not uncommon for her to have dinner with men.  Truth is, Idk how I'd ever find out if she were unfaithful, so I'm not even worrying about it until something fishy or definitive comes up.

She was well-off before coming to the US...her dad did investment banking.  So she just can't relate to my middle-class lifestyle.  It's not like we'd be poor on my salary, but I can't maintain the lifestyle she's lived.  It's going to be interesting seeing how this relationship goes...

She's in China on business for a month right now...it's given me a lot of time to think.  We get along great for the most part.  Sometimes she's so ADHD-like that it frustrates me. She's not a good listener.  She's never on time.  I drive nearly an hour to her place and then have to sit outside her building for 20 minutes b/c she's not ready or is busy with something...little things like that have frustrated me.  She spends 10k for a Tony Robbins seminar and comes back wanting to give us "challenges" that will either bring us closer together or drive us further apart.  She's just...different.  Not a typical Chinese girl, whatever a typical Chinese girl may be like. It's both intriguing and frustrating at the same time...

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