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[quote=GUEST18326,519574]I say send them to the worst nursing home possible! My boyfriend is the eldest of four brothers in a Taiwanese semi-Catholic family (his mother went to Catholic school). I am tired of hearing that I am not chinese enough, or Christian enough, or that everything I do or say gets the response .." you shouldn't do that, in chinese culture...." etc... I have been respectful, but not subservient. I have been polite, but have also stepped on toes because of not understanding boundaries. Yes, I understand your son is sensitive, special, and a gift from God. However, do you understand that I am also someones' special child? There are times when I have wanted to dump my boyfriend because of the constant friction between his mother and I. I feel that he cannot choose sides over this matter. 
There can be compromises, but a compromise is not one sided! Also, he has dated me for the past 3 years because of my differences and who I am, so why am I supposed to be a completely different person around his parents?[/quote]

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