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[quote=GUEST18718,548725]So of the arguments on this forum are true, but definetely not "all". I'm married with a Chinese woman and I have a very cute daughter. I disagree with the money and the family issues. My wife well knows how to spend money and save money. She never buys something expensive if we really don't need it, she doesn't spend much and she even put pressure on me to save some money for the future.

And as for the family, you should make it very clear that now, she and you are a seperate family. I told my wife that I want "nothing", really nothing from her family, so they also should not wait anything from me. It worked till now, I hope it'll go on that way.

I admire my wife in many aspects. She learnt my language (which isn't English) pretty much fast, in just a year. She never missed a lesson or skipped a homework. Very hardworking in studies, indeed. She takes care of me when I'm ill, has a sense of humor, loves reading books, doesn't want to go to expensive restaurans or 5 star hotels, she is a great cook, can cook both Chinese and my native cuisine. She gets along with my mother, nearly like a real mother - daughter. She hates alchol and doesn't want me drink as well - which, actually, I also dislike-. She loves our daughter, a great mother.

But.. um.. there are also some negative sides, such as she's a heavy sleeper, doesn't good at housework (cleaning etc), lazy -always reading something-.. Those might be -I am sure are- personal issues, not something speacial for Chinese.

Soo... HERE COMES what CHINESE girls have in common. Yeah, in common.

1- They want a house or an apartment. Not rental. I mean ownership. That's very important for Chinese. Even if your wife won't care much, her relatives and friends would. "Do you have an apartment? No? When will you buy?" that's a common question you'd face.

2- Never yell. Never. You can't win an argument against a Chinese wife. She'd remember every single detail from the past, even those that you wouldn't remember no matter what. And if you insist, she's start crying. She'd try to lock the door and wait inside for? hours? That can be really annoying.. it is annoying.

You'd see how terrible it is when she just sit on a sidewalk and doesn't move. Or wait on the other side of the road. The only solution, if you don't want to be embrassed more by the people around, holding her arm and forcing her to move.

And if you think I'm short tempered or a terrible man, no. Chinese women can do this for every single little argument. Sometimes you would not even know what did happen..

3- Good thing is, my wife has been changing. Since we are living away from China, she is getting "normal" in my senses.

SO MY ADVISE IS, IF YOU ARE GONNA MARRY A CHINESE;

NEVER

EVER

NEVER NEVER NEVER

LIVE IN CHINA FOR THE FIRST 3-4 YEARS OF YOUR MARRIAGE.

STAY AWAY FROM CHINA AND OTHER CHINESE AT ALL COST.[/quote]

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