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[quote=GUEST11769,552311]In my experience of knowing a Chinese man, I finally realized that he was trying to buy me while buying things for me and that buying me to him meant that he had rightsto me and even ownership as in possessive. He was incredulous that I was not interested no matter what he bought me. He used to literally demand affection from me. I told him you cannot buy affection. He had a certain amount of wealth and used to talk about people as his slaves. What is the name we use for people who are bought by other people? Slaves. It took me a while to put together what he was doing and what his thinking was and why he always had such a puzzled look on his face when I would tell him I did not want to be romantically involved with him. He was aggressive and persistent for over a year. I clearly stated my thoughts on the matter but he would not leave me alone. He started to order me around especially in front of his family or friends. He would tell me to do something then add you will just have to sacrifice. He would always try to sit right next to me to the point that I would have to move or put something like a pillow or tote bag on a couch for example between us. He tried to bully me into marrying him. It got to the point where I told him he was harassing me. Then he tried to tell me I was being clever and cunning by leading him on!!! That was infuriating and deceptive. I realized he was being deceptive and had started telling people he was going to marry me!! He acted like his paying for things meant he had bought me, so he owned me and he had rights to me. Even though it is not obvious to other people, I know him to be deceptive and untrustworthy, attempting to gain a relationship through false pretenses. I am not a Chinese woman but rather American born.[/quote]

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