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[quote=GUEST38194,556371]Hi there,

just found this thread by googling around. I agree with most being married now to a Chinese woman in her her late 30's. For more than 8 years now and there are some differences in cultural perception but especially when it comes to priorities, we have a 7 yr. old son together, we live with her 'crazy' mother who completely wants to control everything, even when or how we should have sex !! Her family members pop in and out whenever they feel right without asking for my consent nor respect my European commons of cleanliness or a healthy social interaction within a family environment. My wife does not like doing housework, thou she and her mother take soley care about my little one 'only' expecting me to bring money home whatever else i do they do not care much, meaning as long as i provide i pretty much have a free pass whatever i desire. Since i am faithful to my wife i do love her i do not fool around with other woman but she stated if that;s what i need to get sexually satisfied i am free to do so. Which is quite frankly shocking to me. Bottom line is: the man is the money provider in China and the care a man needs in a more Western sense is secondary, especially after having kids together.The problem started when i lost my last job and managed to setup now my own company with her, if i demand to have sex she always comes up 'I should not think about sex instead bring money home" Chinese are so damn practical and easily forget that money is not everything but asking me whether my day was ok or giving me a simple hug and/or kiss would mean a lot, BUT not so with traditional Chinese woman where 'STABILITY' means everything and other desires have to wait, sometimes for 'months'.... So my advice living and working here in China and getting married to a Chinese lady, damn better make sure you are not just a English exchange student, better be a big gun, at least CEO level from a big international company here in China. Chinese ladies expect when marriewd with a foreigner 'face value' IF you cannot provide this you are in deep troubles. Marriage here not necessarily means 'love' sadly in many cases just 'social status' I am not a student, i am at a management level, just got recently laid off. My bet and my 2 cents.

Mark[/quote]

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