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[quote=FLOWERLUO,586647]have to say not all Chinese women are good women,but also it  depends on your luck,those girls who can date with you that easy and to be your GF without know you you that much,what you can expect from them?i am a Chinese and my BF is DUTCH,we only become gf/bf after knowing each other for several years,and i also intruduce him to my faminly too,but we never think about to use him as sth that to help us to  immigrate to Holland,sure people stare at us if we went out,but well,that's what you need to get used to when you 2 are from different country right?i would hope my BF will settle down in China with me in future.
it is not easy to be together for a couple from different culture,but if you are in a relationship,don't give up that easy [mood1]

[quote=GUEST13152,583976]I have tried twice to date a Chinese lady!! The first time I met my first date was from the Shanghai area.  I flew in, after we got to know each other for about two months, and met some of her family and a couple of her friends.  Of course I got the stares because I was white man on their territory![mood3]  Most of her family was outgoing but her friends were shut mouth when it come to her presenting herself out in public.  No wonder they were shut mouth because I found out she had three different men from just one hangout!  Nevertheless I left very disappointed but did not give up trying to find the right one.
The second one I dated was from Wuhan, or just outside of, and it was a "date from hell". She wanted to dominate me on everything. I couldn't even order a drink without her first approving. Sorry, but I don't see relationships being like that.  Add to that, she was not honest about anything.  She mislead me on just about any subject I brought up. From schooling to her job, she was making things up along the way and I found out it was the opposite in most cases.  She didn't even finish school and she told me she was going to University when we met online. Even her family had me convinced she was attending.  All they wanted was the money and to get her into the US.  She wanted me to get her pregnant and she would have the baby back in the US to start the process of getting the rest of her family over here.

I am not saying that all Chinese women are bad, but since I was bitten twice, my mouth is soured on the subject of dating them, lest getting to know them.  Someone earlier mentioned that they were "little devils" and they are worse than that to me.  They are little monsters covered by beauty.  Wolves in sheeps clothing!!

Be very careful when they say that they Love you and care about you and your family because all they want are two things..money and honey!

I believe I will stick to trying to find a sweet lady locally and give up this notion that I have to find a foreign woman to love and marry.   You will waste years of your life trying to find the right one if you go half way around the world.  Gook luck to those who are still going to attempt this endeavor![/qu[/quote]

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