visiting and staying in a chinese home

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visiting and staying in a chinese home
Jun 16, 2007 10:04
ROBERTXIUHUA Points: Join Date: Jun 16, 2007 Status: offline	doing my first trip to china on 23 june i would like to live with my girlfriend at her home for 2 weeks, she is widowed like me will there be problems for us as to the law in china, she lives in changsha so any travel tips for his city would be appreciated

Jun 16, 2007 23:47

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Technivally it is not permitted to stay in private homes. However this regulation is seldom if ever an issue as the authorities are generally reactive rather than proactive. If she has any neighbour wars, a neighbour could complain, I suppose and then the police would probabaly have to look into it. If you stay with her the neighbours are likely to gossip. If you do not continue the relationship she may be in a difficult position with neighbours - more than we can inderstand. I found it VERY difficult to exit such a situation in my first week in China!!

Jun 17, 2007 04:15	#2
LIONPOWER Points: Join Date: Dec 11, 2006 Status: Offline	It's not a problem if you live in a up-graded city. changsha I did not visit, so can't say, how you will pass your time. Alternatives, stay hotel at night.

Jun 18, 2007 10:27	#3
ROBERTXIUHUA Points: Join Date: Jun 16, 2007 Status: Offline	we intend to sightsee most of the time so we my only stay at her home 2 or 3 days all depends on how we feel

Jun 18, 2007 10:36	#4
ROBERTXIUHUA Points: Join Date: Jun 16, 2007 Status: Offline	would you like explane on found it difficuilt to exit your situation, will this affect me? I only intend to stay at her home for 2 or 3 days then maybe travel around

Jun 18, 2007 13:15	#5
LIONPOWER Points: Join Date: Dec 11, 2006 Status: Offline	Better to ask your GF about this. As local people she knows better

Jun 19, 2007 17:59	#6
GRIZ326 Points: Join Date: Jun 12, 2006 Status: Offline	Error on the side of caution and do not put the woman's reputation in jeopardy. No matter how good your intentions, you are not married until you are married. Be on your good behavior; if she has other ideas then she made the call.

Jun 19, 2007 21:24	#7
IAMCANADIAN Points: 196 Join Date: Oct 20, 2006 Status: Offline	hey man i wouldnt live there wait till you get married people around will talk bs and be jealous

Jun 21, 2007 12:15	#8
ROBERTXIUHUA Points: Join Date: Jun 16, 2007 Status: Offline	Thank's! she as now arranged for us to live at other accommodation, her idea i will be good English gentleman to her,

Jun 21, 2007 12:33	#9
LIONPOWER Points: Join Date: Dec 11, 2006 Status: Offline	That's OK

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