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How much does a man spend on his beloved in his life?
Dec 4, 2007 11:23
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  • SHESGOTTOBE
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Then it goes both ways. If she really love her beloved, she would never care how much he will spend on her. Love cannot be measured by money. Wait, can face be measured by money? ^_^"
Dec 4, 2007 20:22
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Quote: Love cannot be measured by money. Wait, can face be measured by money? ^_^"

To some extent, face can be measured by money. Just imagine: if your husband did not hold a feast to celebrate your marriage, what will you, your parents and other people think about him? I am afraid that your parents are the first who stand up and say "no". Some people may say that you should not get married if you are so poor. At least, Chinese people do so.
Dec 5, 2007 02:01
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I guess I'm lucky that my Jing doesn't want me to spend too much money on our wedding, she is just happy to become my wife.
Alan.
Dec 5, 2007 10:37
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Big or small, a wedding ceremony must for a life.
Dec 5, 2007 20:25
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"To some extent, face can be measured by money. Just imagine: if your husband did not hold a feast to celebrate your marriage, what will you, your parents and other people think about him? I am afraid that your parents are the first who stand up and say "no". Some people may say that you should not get married if you are so poor. At least, Chinese people do so."


I am not too sure about that. I grew up in a circle where people are not judged by their bank accounts but by their hearts and character. However, if other people believe otherwise, then I respect that belief.
Dec 5, 2007 20:32
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"I guess I'm lucky that my Jing doesn't want me to spend too much money on our wedding, she is just happy to become my wife."


Alan, that reminded me of this quote:

I dreamed of a wedding of elaborate elegance,
A church filled with flowers and friends.
I asked her what kind of wedding she wished for;
She said, "one that would make me your wife".
~ Anonymous


Congrats, Alan! (^_^)/
Dec 6, 2007 00:38
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Quote: I grew up in a circle where people are not judged by their bank accounts but by their hearts and character. However, if other people believe otherwise, then I respect that belief.

SHESGOTTOBE, face is very important to Chinese people. Getting married is no exception. Parents all want their daughter to have a grand wedding ceremony. It is also girls' dream. For me, if my future mother and father in law and my wife do not mind, I would save the money to hold a ceremony and spend our honeymoon by travelling.
Dec 6, 2007 03:06
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It's impossible! 200,000RMB for a wedding?Yes,the face is very important to Chinese people, but the most of chinese people can not cost 200.000RMB for a wedding.In the small city of china, 200,000RMB can buy a new house!
Dec 6, 2007 20:29
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"SHESGOTTOBE, face is very important to Chinese people. Getting married is no exception. Parents all want their daughter to have a grand wedding ceremony. It is also girls' dream. For me, if my future mother and father in law and my wife do not mind, I would save the money to hold a ceremony and spend our honeymoon by travelling."


Great dreams, JimmyB. May all your wishes come true! ^_^
Dec 6, 2007 22:48
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We are living in a society, so we can't do any work against society. Society like water for fish.
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