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How do I express my feelings....
Nov 7, 2007 22:20
Hello, I am from the USA, and I have a penpal who lives in China :), and I have grown very fond of her (I can't get her out of my mind lately) and I was wondering is there anyway I can express my feelings for her? I just don't want her to be scared or nervous because how our two cultures are different. Thanks ahead of time ^__^
Nov 8, 2007 01:24
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My advice is just be yourself and take the lead by expressing your feelings,as long as you don't come on too strong you will be fine, she is probably feeling the same way.
Good luck.
Alan.
Nov 8, 2007 02:43
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Alan,

Nice advice! It sounds that you are an expert. LOL! Did your method take effect, when you fell in love with your "Han Jing"? Anyhow it's a good advice.

Hi CHINAISC...

Can you sense what the girl's feeling is for you? If you are not sure, just be very cautious. You can write a letter or an email to her and express your affection for her implicitly. Then, you will see how she responds. This is my advice.

Good luck!
Nov 8, 2007 04:43
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Chinaise,
Love is only for the bold not the slow..
Tell her how you feel in a nice way. Expose you thoughts in a nice way. If She responds you may have the start of something.
The cultures are not that different in this area. Love is love.
Dodger.
Nov 8, 2007 06:00
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Leonardo, It was different for me with my Han Jing, as we had already met and she liked me, also she felt sorry for the way I was being treated by the other lady and her family, she told my friend Nina that she wanted to get to know me better, we took it from there.
As for the advice I gave, it's how I would go about it myself, the lady is probably a little scared to share her feelings so it's best the man takes the lead, they seem to be getting on fine so I see no problem.
Alan.
Nov 8, 2007 10:50
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I would like to thank you all for your responses. I sense she does have feelings for me, and I don't know how I can explain those senses. Can you sense what the girl's feeling is for you? I was thinking of writing her a letter telling her. I think she does like me because she thinks I am cute, and for some reason she is worried about me. I don't drink or smoke so that eliminates that posibility.
Nov 8, 2007 11:44
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Well Chinaiscool, as I said go for it.
It sounds to me she is very much interested in you.
Alan
Nov 19, 2007 02:40
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Alan,your advice is quite encouraging...

Though I personally agree with you,so Chinaiscool,be yourself.Good luck!
Nov 19, 2007 02:51
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Now that you are penpals, why not use your pen to record your feel and let her know it?
Nov 29, 2007 22:32
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Just do it ~ NIKE


^_^"
Nov 30, 2007 10:40
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Nike slogan doesn't do it? ^_^"

Check this out. A love poem especially for cyber romance.

Have I Ever
by Ravenz23


Have I ever told you
that if I sit really still and silent,
sometimes. I like to think
I can hear your heart beating
in time with mine?

Have I ever told you
that when I watch you speak to me
through lines and cords,
and bytes and ram,
I imagine
your voice,
whispering into my ear?

Have I ever told you
that I wait out each day
in anticipation,
wanting
only an hour or two,
just a second in space and time,
to feel close to you?

Have I ever told you
that there has been times,
when I ached for you,
ached for you so badly,
that the emotions overwhelmed me..
and so I sat and cried?

Have I ever told you
that sometimes,
I will reach out,
touching your name
on this cold screen before me,
wishing
I could reach in
and pull you to me?

Have I ever told you
that after the first time I heard
the sound of your voice,
thousands of miles away,
I sat up all night,
turning the conversation over and over
in my mind,
examining it,
like some newly discovered species of flower?

Have I ever told you
that I would give everything up,
just for one night
to be able to lay near you,
to feel your chest rise and fall
with each breath you take,
just to know that you are real?

Have I ever told you
that I dream of you often,
I dream of you reaching out
and touching my hand,
simply to let me know
that you are there,
and everything is okay?

Have I ever told you,
have I still yet to tell you . . .
that I love you?

~~~
(c) 2000 Ravenz23 Please respect the rights of the author and Passions in Poetry. If you would like to use this poem on your own web page, please contact the Author. Thank you.

Here is the website I got it from: http://www.netpoets.com/poems/cyberlov/1563001.htm

You might want to contact the author.


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