| Which person do you choose? | |
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| Dec 14, 2007 02:28 |   |
 | When you are facing such a situation: A man is a kind person who will take care of you every time you meet a terrible situation,truely love you and you love him but he is poor. Another man: a person with a big house and car but doesn't love you but to marry with him is your parent's hope. Then which person do you choose? |
| Dec 14, 2007 03:06 | #1 |
| This is a lot like that song Shan Hu Hai by Jay Chou. |
| Dec 14, 2007 19:11 | #2 |
| It's a hard decision. In my opinoin, if you want to live a happy life, you should choose the one who love you and you love. Meawhile, I get to know that the rich man doesn't love you and you don't love him, am I right? So you may try to persude your parents. Anyway, that's you who will live with one of them not your parents, so that's your choice. In addition, the poor man may have his big house and car in the future, he is still young now. |
| Dec 16, 2007 19:42 | #3 |
| The money vs. love dilemma that never goes away. LOL! “A man is a kind person who will take care of you every time you meet a terrible situation, truly love you and you love him but he is poor.” Verdict: I am the one who is going to live with him. He is worth fighting for and my happiness is worth fighting for. It will be a pleasure to work together to have a better life because we love each other. “A person with a big house and car but doesn't love you but to marry with him is your parent's hope.” Verdict: Anyone can buy a big house and a car. You just have to work for them. If I don’t love him and he doesn’t love me and I marry him, naturally I will end up being miserable. Then, I will end up being bitter with the world around me. Worse, I’ll probably end up blaming my parents for my misery for the rest of my life. Yikes! So, no. |
| Dec 16, 2007 20:41 | #4 |
| This is a hard nut. At present, there seems to be an inevitable dilima between money and love. After all, rich guys that are worthing love are becoming rarer. Most guys have to stay in poverty or live a mediocre life. If we want to address this question ultimately, we have to what on earth we are striving for. Life is a one-way journey. Happiness is the beacon in the far side. The question is how we define happiness. If we still confused at all times, we would be entraped. |
| Dec 17, 2007 01:28 | #5 |
| I am the poor man ( by western standards ) and lucky for me, Jing wants me. Alan. |
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