The idealist wife in Chinese men' eyes

The idealist wife in Chinese men' eyes
Feb 19, 2008 03:30
JIMMYB Points: Join Date: Feb 7, 2007 Status: offline	I read a very interesting article on the internet and would like to share it with you. The original article is written in Chinese and I translate it into English. As the title suggests, it is about the idealist wife. Actually, there are so many similar threads here. Just read it for fun. Requirements: No.1 Be healthy. Good appearance can't be kept forever and health is the most important. If you are not handsome, don't marry a pretty girl. In today's world, beautiful girls are dangerous. No.2 Be kind-hearted. Only kind-eharted women know how to care about her husband, child and parents in law and treat others kindly. No.3 Give honours to your parents or parents in law. A wise wife knows that the relationship between her and her parents in law is very important and she nevers makes her husband embarrassed in dealing with it. No.4 Be very Understandable and apprehensive. Understanding is the most precious. The couples should understand each other so that their family can be very happy. No.5 Not knowledgeable but well-educated. Those well-educated women know how to manage their love and family. No.6 Be good natured and soft. Men love good natured and soft women. Being good natured and soft is a must for Chinese traditional women. No.7 Be smart and competent. Being competent doesn't mean that she must be a career woman. No.8 Be faithful to love. Now that you have married him, you should be faithful to him and your love. Also, you husband should be faithful too. No.9 Be diligent and thrift in running your family. No matter how rich you are, you should bear in mind that all things aren't gained so easily. No.10 Be content. Don't compare your husband and family conditions with others unrealistically. If you and your husband work harder and harder, you will live a rich and happy life. What do you think of the ten requirements? Does such an ideal wife exist in the world?

Feb 19, 2008 03:30

JIMMYB
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I read a very interesting article on the internet and would like to share it with you. The original article is written in Chinese and I translate it into English. As the title suggests, it is about the idealist wife. Actually, there are so many similar threads here. Just read it for fun.

Requirements:

No.1 Be healthy. Good appearance can't be kept forever and health is the most important. If you are not handsome, don't marry a pretty girl. In today's world, beautiful girls are dangerous.

No.2 Be kind-hearted. Only kind-eharted women know how to care about her husband, child and parents in law and treat others kindly.

No.3 Give honours to your parents or parents in law. A wise wife knows that the relationship between her and her parents in law is very important and she nevers makes her husband embarrassed in dealing with it.

No.4 Be very Understandable and apprehensive. Understanding is the most precious. The couples should understand each other so that their family can be very happy.

No.5 Not knowledgeable but well-educated. Those well-educated women know how to manage their love and family.

No.6 Be good natured and soft. Men love good natured and soft women. Being good natured and soft is a must for Chinese traditional women.

No.7 Be smart and competent. Being competent doesn't mean that she must be a career woman.

No.8 Be faithful to love. Now that you have married him, you should be faithful to him and your love. Also, you husband should be faithful too.

No.9 Be diligent and thrift in running your family. No matter how rich you are, you should bear in mind that all things aren't gained so easily.

No.10 Be content. Don't compare your husband and family conditions with others unrealistically. If you and your husband work harder and harder, you will live a rich and happy life.

What do you think of the ten requirements? Does such an ideal wife exist in the world?

Feb 19, 2008 12:43	#1
GRIZ326 Points: Join Date: Jun 12, 2006 Status: Offline	It is a good list, but I'd think that either a husband or wife that scores 8 out of 10 is doing pretty well as an ideal mate.

Feb 20, 2008 21:14	#2
ICEBLUE Points: Join Date: Aug 30, 2007 Status: Offline	My answer to your question is: Yea, it exists, but it takes your a lot of time to find. An ideal wife should meet the requirements? How about the requirements for an ideal husband? We all need "not too demanding", buddies.

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