To divorce him???

To divorce him???
Jun 3, 2008 01:58
JIMMYB Points: Join Date: Feb 7, 2007 Status: offline	A question for all couples: Suppose you are watching TV programs at home and the earthquake suddenly happens, what will you do? On May 12th,Mrs. Zhang and her husband was watching TV at home. Suddenly, their house was shaking. Then they realized that it was the earthquake. Her husband immdediately ran out of the house, leaving her alone at home. After the earthquake, she told her husband that she wanted to divorce him because she didn't want to live with a guy who only cared about his own life. Actually, her husband was not as bad as she thought. When he reached the ground (their home was on the 16th floor), he realized that his wife was still at home. Then he went back home to find her. When his wife said she wanted to divorce, he even kneeled down and begged his wife not to divorce. However, his wife still insisted on divorcing him. Do you think that she should divorce her husband? Should we take disaster as the touchstone for our lovers' loyalty?

Jun 3, 2008 01:58

JIMMYB
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A question for all couples: Suppose you are watching TV programs at home and the earthquake suddenly happens, what will you do?

On May 12th,Mrs. Zhang and her husband was watching TV at home. Suddenly, their house was shaking. Then they realized that it was the earthquake. Her husband immdediately ran out of the house, leaving her alone at home. After the earthquake, she told her husband that she wanted to divorce him because she didn't want to live with a guy who only cared about his own life. Actually, her husband was not as bad as she thought. When he reached the ground (their home was on the 16th floor), he realized that his wife was still at home. Then he went back home to find her. When his wife said she wanted to divorce, he even kneeled down and begged his wife not to divorce. However, his wife still insisted on divorcing him.

Do you think that she should divorce her husband? Should we take disaster as the touchstone for our lovers' loyalty?

Jun 3, 2008 07:31	#1
JSUMMERS83 Points: Join Date: Apr 30, 2008 Status: Offline	Sounds to me like Mr. and Mrs. Zhang had marital problems long before the earthquake happened. Might be a bit presumptuous to think that this is the only reason she wants a divorce. Don't blame the straw that broke the camel's back!

Jun 3, 2008 19:13	#2
DODGER Points: Join Date: Jul 15, 2007 Status: Offline	My thoughts as well. It's never one thing. Dodger.

Jun 3, 2008 20:49

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Jsummer, it sounds to me that you are an expert on marriage. I found the news in the internet. An expert analyzed that Mrs. Zhang might have made her decision before the earthquake but she didn't find a good chance to tell his husband. Right now, she takes the earthquake as an excuse. Personally, I could understand how she was disappointed about her husband. If I were her, I would be disappointed too.

Here is another story: A couple went to the bureau of civil administration for divorce in Jiangbei district of Chongqing on May 12th. When the earthquake happened, they escaped from the 21-floor bulding hand in hand. They promised each other they wouldn't divorce and live happily if they could survive the earthquake. After running out of the building safely, they embraced and cried.

Would you run away immediately when the earthquake happened? Most people will say "No, I wouldn't.". But when the earthquake really happens, will you keep your promise? Just think about it seriously before you decide to divorce.

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