| Why can't girls chase their Mr. Right? | |
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| Jun 26, 2008 02:49 |   |
 | Usually, men are more active when chasing their Snow White. They will do whatever they can to chase the girl, sending her flower, inviting her for a dinner, waiting in front of her house etc. However, if a girl chases her Mr. Right actively, what result is waiting for her? Failure. According to FT, Xiao Ai met her Mr. Right one day. Thus, she decided to chase him, writing him love letters, sending him special short messages and paying court to him in public. She believed that she would succeed because no man could resisit a pretty girl who actively chased him. However, that man failed her. Why? He thought it was weird that a girl was so active to chase a man and he couldn't get used to it. Why can't girls chase their Mr. Right? Is it just because they are too active and perform weirdly? |
| Jun 26, 2008 08:37 | #1 |
| It is unusual for a woman to chase a man and maybe the man thinks such a forward woman is not so good, is she always that forward with men??? so it feels uncomfortable. I dont mind if a woman chased me, in fact it would be good as I am shy and find it difficult to approach women I like. |
| Jun 26, 2008 21:54 | #2 |
| "I dont mind if a woman chased me, in fact it would be good as I am shy and find it difficult to approach women I like." Dave, why do you feel it is difficult to approach women you like? Women are not "tigers". You needn't be afraid of them. If you approach them, you will find that they are as gentle as lambs. Haha. By the way, I think that the girl used the wrong way to chase her Mr. Right. Usually, boys used these methods to chase girls. She shouldn't have been so bold. That boy was scared by her. She needs to think about other "indirect" ways. To be honest, I admire that girl because she was so brave to chase her Mr. Right. If I met my Mr. Right, I would expect him to be more active (maybe I might lose him due to my timidity). |
| Jun 27, 2008 05:30 | #3 |
| I strongly agree with Davec, I like my girl to be confident but that is extremely forward with a guy. Its like, what if she is like this everyday? Haha, my mom told me to be aware of women with pointy ears, some Chinese saying which is supposed to spot a real bold woman. |
| Jun 29, 2008 21:59 | #4 |
| "Haha, my mom told me to be aware of women with pointy ears, some Chinese saying which is supposed to spot a real bold woman." Interesting, Danny. I have heard that boys better not marry girls who have canine teeth because it is said that they will bring bad luck to their husbands. More seriously, their husbands might die after getting married. Let's come back to the topic. If I were that boy, I would be scared too. However, those who are inactive in chasing girls might like those bold girls. |
| Jul 1, 2008 19:58 | #5 |
| "Why can't girls chase their Mr. Right?" Who says they can't? Go Girls! ;-) |
| Jul 1, 2008 19:59 | #6 |
| By the way, girls chase guys all the time, if you know how to read the 'signs'. ^_^ |
| Jul 1, 2008 21:00 | #7 |
| "By the way, girls chase guys all the time, if you know how to read the 'signs'." What signs do the girls usually use? I guess that I have missed many girls because I am a bit dull in reading those "signs". |
| Jul 1, 2008 21:57 | #8 |
| If I were the man,i thought i would be scared too...and if i were the girl,i wouldn't be so bold in the way of chasing,,just as what SHESGOTTOBE said,i will use some signs since i am also shy to approach guys,maybe i will try to make myself looks more beautiful and try to appear in front of him,I think if i am his style,he will notic me and approach me,If not,i think i am not his style, it won;t work even if i try all means to chase him |
| Jul 2, 2008 21:34 | #9 |
| "just as what SHESGOTTOBE said,i will use some signs since i am also shy to approach guys,maybe i will try to make myself looks more beautiful and try to appear in front of him,I think if i am his style,he will notic me and approach me,If not,i think i am not his style, it won;t work even if i try all means to chase him". Sonia, you must know that some boys are dull in reading your "hints". What if the one you love are poor to read your signs? Then what are you going to do? Give him more hints or signs? They don't work. |
| Jul 2, 2008 22:14 | #10 |
| JimmyB, you must be so scared that you surround yourself with a force field. Could it be that you made yourself so immune to the signs? Funny thing about 'signs', if you are interested in a person, you are always watching that person. Therefore, you can see every move and action. It's true though, that there are times that no matter what signs you give off, it won't work if the person is not attracted to you in the first place. I mean, you don't actually have a relationship with just about anyone who 'flirt' with you, right? Unless you don't take relationships seriously and you are a playboy, that is. Sometimes, even just a simple, one-second touch on your arm while you two are talking is a sign. For some girls, it's giving you a handmade gift. It takes effort, it takes thoughts of you to create that gift. Sometimes, brushing off imaginary 'dirt' on your shirt. *cough* Hmm....Should I give away girl secrets? Oh man, how did I end up teaching cupid lessons to a guy? LOL! |
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