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Have you ever been lack of sense of security?
Dec 1, 2008 01:28
guest9318 Have you ever woke in the midnight and found your cheek full of tears? Have you ever been afraid of losing friendship, relatives or affection? Do you what’s the sense of security? How did you get rid of the insecure feelings and how did you come out of the gloomy days?
Dec 1, 2008 10:07
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  • GRIZ326
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The singer Bing Crosby did a song that is the best medicine for what seems to ail you:

COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS (Instead of Sheep)
(Irving Berlin) from the 1954 movie "White Christmas".

When I'm worried and I can't sleep
I count my blessings instead of sheep
And I fall asleep counting my blessings
When my bankroll is getting small
I think of when I had none at all
And I fall asleep counting my blessings

I think about a nursery and I picture curly heads
And one by one I count them as they slumber in their beds
If you're worried and you can't sleep
Just count your blessings instead of sheep
And you'll fall asleep counting your blessings

I think about a nursery and I picture curly heads
And one by one I count them as they slumber in their beds
If you're worried and you can't sleep
Just count your blessings instead of sheep
And you'll fall asleep counting your blessings


Dec 1, 2008 19:38
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We all have the insecure feelings sometimes since life is so tough. When I was extremely tired, I couldn't fall asleep easily. The lack of sense of security means we are uncertain about our own lives. When I was at college, I was once lack of sense of security.
Dec 1, 2008 20:12
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"Have you ever woke in the midnight and found your cheek full of tears?"

Never happened to me, so far. I have to be awake if I have to cry. O_o


"Have you ever been afraid of losing friendship, relatives or affection?"

There was a time years ago when I felt that way. But I guess at some point in my life, I accepted the fact that nothing lasts forever. People come and go. People are born and people die. There's nothing we can do about it except make the best of our lives and cherish every moment. This way, we won't have any regrets.


"Do you what’s the sense of security? How did you get rid of the insecure feelings and how did you come out of the gloomy days?"

If you think about it, there is no such thing as security. A person can promise you anything and there is no guarantee that he/she would fulfill it. You can use deadbolts all over your house, yet there is no guarantee that you won't be intruded. If you love somebody, there is no guarantee that you would be loved back. But, you know what? It's still worth it.
Dec 1, 2008 20:14
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Insecurity is a negative feeling. Try thinking happy thoughts. Count your blessings. Sometimes we are so blessed but we never noticed it because we tend to dwell on what we don't have.
Dec 2, 2008 03:36
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No absolute security ever exists. At some point, we all have ever been lack of sense of security. Well, people who quite often lack the sense of security are easily to become pessimists. As I remember a line from a book, people who repeatedly failed in school, in love and work must learn that they are capable of success before they can really succeed.
Dec 2, 2008 11:53
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Sometimes fear and insecurity may be part of anxieties that accompany clinical depression. While we occasionally all worry and feel insecure, if you feel yourself being overwhelmed by your fears and insecurities, GUEST9318, it may be a sign that you should discuss it with your doctor. Hope you are feeling better.
Dec 2, 2008 23:20
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lack of seurity is not a bad thing. Easy and comfortable life drive you despirtied.

Bleesing is way of cure. Stay with sunny, healthy folks if you need to be cheered up in work and study and as well make friends with religious belief who can teach you how to keep calm and logic when meeting with tough things.

Keep smiling!
Dec 4, 2008 03:51
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GUEST656 Don't feel daunted. Have faith in that: it is not the end of world. When the rain sets in, remember sun will shines again. Hope is the best medicine to heal the gloom.
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