| Romancing a Chinese woman | |
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| Feb 29, 2012 13:18 | #121   |
| GUEST00110 | I have been dating a Chinese woman for fourteen months; I have found many differences in American women versus Chinese women. Kissing in not on the list of things to do. Showing any affection in public is not going to happen. This person was born before 1970 so I’m dealing old traditions. As for sex, I’m not going to go to far into this but I can tell you being from NYC my whole life I have experienced many different encounters. Many of the things that happen between us are new to her. I have learned to be very aware of her likes and dislikes. Luckily for me there has been more likes then dislikes. Just be gentile with anything you do. This will only show her that you really care. |
| Mar 16, 2012 03:28 | #122 |
| GUEST79130 | better be careful when she is back in chinaland by herself.. she may be seeing her "guanxi" boyfriends |
| Mar 16, 2012 03:31 | #123 |
| GUEST79130 | Quote:Originally Posted by GUEST00110 .... you are wrong dont be fooled... they dont do it publicly is because they dont want to be caught in the public with her panties off....with you by one of her many boyfriends. think again .. do you know why china is so populated??? they love SEX. |
| Mar 16, 2012 03:37 | #124 |
| GUEST79130 | Quote:Originally Posted by GUESTJERRY hi i am dateing a chinnese girl we spend time together i love her but i want to make sure she feels the same she likes to be with me but she is not to affectionat in publice but when we are alone she loves me to touch her also christmas is her what do i do for her she also has a dautershe wants something from you ($$, immigration status....) ... and she doesnt want to be caught in public by her husband or boyfriends... thats why she behaves like this. dont be suprised that chinawomen have many sex partners if you really care or dare to dig into her background. it norm in china to exchange a hole for gold. |
| Mar 18, 2012 21:42 | #125 |
| GUEST17161 | Maybe you an tell the rest of us why you have jumped to this conclusion? Typical presumptuous female! |
| Apr 22, 2012 18:52 | #126 |
 | Shakinth makes some good points. If you are an American looking for a Chinese wife do your homework, take your time. I just got back from China where I met Amy for the first time. We originally met online and communicated for several months via Skype. I made my intentions of finding a wife upfront along with my financial status (which I am not a wealthy man), and my time frame for being ready for her to come to America, which was about a year and a half. She was very receptive to my honesty and we finally met in Shenyang we knew we were a match. And it is because of the time, honesty, open communication, and lengthy conversations we had that allowed us to be sure we were goiong in the right direction with each other. DON'T go into this venture just to satisfy your libido! All that will fall into place if you take the time to get to know her and treat her and her family with respect and allow yourselves to be loved. Good Luck to All!! |
| May 13, 2012 16:35 | #127 |
| GUEST11657 | sounds like she is after a passport to a better life to me, don't be taken in, it will cost you a fortune |
| Jul 6, 2012 00:31 | #128 |
| GUEST13696 | I love your short, positive advice. Some comments are rediculous. xiexie...Cole |
| Aug 14, 2012 23:33 | #129 |
| GUEST19245 | Most likely you met this woman on the internet and you've been sitting in front of your computer chatting back and forth for hours along with the phone calls. Well buddy, let me tell you this and then you decide. If you want a woman that controls everything you do and treats you like a five year old kid everyday, then by all means, jump on the next flight and get your dumb*** to China. I lived there for three years and everyday this woman thought she really owned my soul. Ask any expat that lives there before you make a decision, you'll get the same story and if you don't, they're liars. As far as sex is concerned? The only thing they know is, that it's there just to have a baby and while in the act, all they do, is lay there and do nothing. You can brag all you want to about how good a lover you are but, you'll never get a move from none of them. Sweet, charming, smiles and a pretty face lasts about a month, and then reality kicks in. I'm back in the sates now and there is absolutely NO way I'd ever marry any of those women again! Do as you will. |
| Oct 24, 2012 06:48 | #130 |
| GUEST54254 | nice story, hope everything worked out. hey, which chat did you meet your chinese women? thanks for an answer |
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