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| Apr 4, 2009 06:17 |   |
 | I read lots of threads here today . Perhaps many of us care about what others think about our countrymen,maybe it's just perhaps ,I don't know. but the thing I know is that I do care. I had this chance and heard lots of voices about Chinese women or men here ,So I really want to say thanks ,thanks for this forum and thank you guys. Leo Tolstoy has given us “Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.”,maybe i can make some change on it “good person are all alike;every ungood(can I say like that?i'm sorry but I don't know really )person is ungood in their own ways ” Although I don't know lots of foreign friends,but by what i constantly see and hear,I want to say good person are alike no matter where he/she is from. I have to admit that my views has changed a lot about foreign guys. I'm from Beijing and there are more and more foreigners here. For a long time,I didn't believe that kind of so-called LOVE between foreign guys and Chinese girls.i though maybe those guys just wanted to play a game with these good-looking girls ,if the guys were fed up , then waved their hand softly and said goodbye .and the girls ,maybe they had another purposes.although I knew some of them are not ,but I still could not change my mind. More and more Slowly, I began to feel sorry about what I had on my mind .many of them do care about each other and they would like to settle in Beijing for her and would like to give up something and meanwhile work really hard on this relationship . I sincerely wish them good luck together :) At last ,although I know it's none of my business, but I still want to say , Internet makes us have more chances to chat with anyone without face to face, but… it's not the excuse for us to take less responsibility for our words . I used to go to WAYN'com, it's a website for travelers. at first , I was really happy to make some friends who had same interest with me. and then my new “friends” wanted to add my msn,yes ,I did . after hi and hi back and bla bla short greeting ,uncomfortable things happened. I'm so sorry about these giddy person, Sent message “please learn to respect yourself ” and then blocked their messages. i know it's their right to choose how to do ,but Self-respect, At least I think , it's the most basic rule for us. Well, In this regard ,and I'm so grateful for this forum and you guys :) although i'm new here but i have remembered several IDs deeply  Thank you for hearing my talkee-talkee Take good care & have a good Sunday Xiaojing |
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| Apr 5, 2009 01:24 | #1 |
| Well.....you have a good Sunday too....or maybe Monday by now. |
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