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Love Vs Culture, who do you think will be the winner?
Jun 3, 2010 02:59
  • BL2022
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One of my friends has an overseas boyfriend who can have 4 wives at the same time. His father gets 2 wives. Presently, this guy is studying in our country. Although he says he will never do it, but when he goes back to his country, can he keep his promise? What if many of his friends marry more than one wife?

Love Vs Culture, who do you think will be the winner?
Jun 3, 2010 05:31
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  • GAFFER
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It might depend on his boredom threshold or the sex of resulting children, but I would not take bets on remaining the only wife. Society, culture and family pressure will always win.
Jul 3, 2010 04:28
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They recently broke up after the boy sitting on two chairs. It turns out not to be a culture thing but a personal thing.

And one of our mutual friends said: We'd rather believe in ghosts than man's promise.

Terrible thing! Even more terrible to encounter an irresponsible guy.
Jul 3, 2010 04:41
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Originally Posted by BL2022

They recently broke up after the boy sitting on two chairs. It turns out not to be a culture thing but a personal thing.
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BL2022, for the guy, it's not sitting on two chairs. it's common thing for him to have several GFs at the same time, it's their culture. So culture won.
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Jul 4, 2010 01:35
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Quote:

Originally Posted by BL2022

We'd rather believe in ghosts than man's promise.

Terrible thing! Even more terrible to encounter an irresponsible guy.


What? maybe you can try to part them . Do you think she can handle this well because she doesn't believe in this guy no matter he is untrustworthy ot not. Who will win? not culture, not love either. But their mistrust.
Jul 4, 2010 03:02
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And one of our mutual friends said: We'd rather believe in ghosts than man's promise.


Please don't judge all men after you broke up with one guy. He is a cheater but that doesn't mean that all men are cheaters.

It just reminds me of a sentence said by a famous Chinese actress. She said "男人要是靠得住,母猪也会爬上树". Literally, it means "If you think men can be relied on, then the sow can climb a tree," Let's make it clear. The sow can never climb a tree so that men can never be relied on.
Jul 4, 2010 10:18
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Have another meaning ---
Saw can't climbed but able to cut the tree.
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