| Why do western women seldom marry Chinese men? | |
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| Nov 8, 2010 03:35 | #21   |
 | Quote:Originally Posted by JOCABED Thank you very much^^ BTW im curious .. you are the guy in the picture ' 
The avatar is not me, Jocabed. He is a pop singer in Taiwan. His English name is Jay Chou. |
| Nov 8, 2010 23:02 | #22 |
| GUEST18157 | LMAO! This forum is halarious. First of all I have my own comments for these 4 points.  "1.Chinese men are not handsome." Ha! I happen to find asian guys really attractive! White dudes are overrated. (I am American btw) "2.Chinese men are not sexy and manly. See, they usually don’t have chest hair." Chest hair? Uh, GROSS! I actually like my guys without it! "3.Chinese men are not as humorous as western guys." My chinese boyfriend is very funny! Humor is a very important attraction for me and my native chinese boyfriend has had no problem making me laugh in his own unique way. "4.Chinese men are not gentle enough. They seldom apply the principle of “Ladies first” in their lives." My boyfriend has yet to be so insenstive. He has always been sweet to me in every way. |
| Nov 8, 2010 23:57 | #23 |
| GUEST06107 | Quote:Originally Posted by JOCABED Thank you very much^^ BTW im curious .. you are the guy in the picture '
The guy in the picture is the megastar Jay Chou |
| Nov 24, 2010 23:39 | #24 |
| GUEST01170 | I completely agree with guestflower, I think Chinese boys are very attractive. I hate when a man's chest has hair, that makes them look not clean, I find hairy man VERY UNATTRACTIVE, i don't like them at all. I'd be glad to find someday a good chinese man to be my partner in life. |
| Nov 28, 2010 20:51 | #25 |
| GUEST110 | There are girls who like a hairy chest and some dont, some like the more "flat" face some dont... But i think because many chinese men looks smaller, and the very different face is often then western girls just dont think as much. Also maybe that some ch. guys tried to talk to the western girl but because it happen often she never thinks about that he actually want more. But i have to say its true in some ways that chinese man are too serious and too traditional. Many still like the girl at home, should only go out for shopping, etc... I met a american girl she married a chinese guy (not for long) she said it had been mostly because the parents... So i think that especially the parents of the chinese also could be a big problem, they just wanna have somebody who look after them and family, and many westerner loves their parents, but dont want to spend every day with them. |
| Jan 5, 2011 04:15 | #26 |
| GUEST72108 | Well, my Chinese boyfriend always obeys his parents. For example we plan to go to the Great Wall since Tuesday and his mother calls him on Friday evening and asks him to visit her the next day. So he simply changes his plans and anounces me that we wouldn´t got to the Great Wall. This happened several times and we argued a lot. I think that a western boy would behave diferently unless his mother got seriously sick or something. My bf told me that it is a dream of every Chinese man to have a girlfriend that follows his parents will in all situations. Now he has changed his attitude little bit but I am still shocked. I am flying to Europe next week and I am not sure that I come back to China, although I love him a lot. |
| Jan 22, 2011 08:36 | #27 |
| GUESTDOVE | i beg to disagree not all chinese guy are like that. i meet a chinese man here in manila named Tony Ang and he acts well on his attitude, his handsome and gentleman. and ,im prefered to marry a chinese man...  |
| Jan 23, 2011 10:29 | #28 |
| Who like's big noses? Or Hairy chests? I know I'm not fond of them. :) And there are plenty of handsome Chinese men aren't there. I'm a western woman and I would marry a Chinese guy, if we were in love. ^ ^ But I don't think race has to do with that. |
| Jan 24, 2011 12:11 | #29 |
| GUESTSOFTFLOWER | 1st and 2nd point is just because this is written by a western guy.Well if we take the disadvantages of Western guys,they are not stable.On the other hand Chinese guys are more protective and nice.Some Chinese guys are damn cute,most chinese girls are.Personally I prefer chinese men over white guys |
| Mar 13, 2011 05:58 | #30 |
| GUEST67162 | I am English and my boyfriend is chinese, he is absolutely gorgeous! Everything is about personal preference, there aren't as many chinese guys as caucasion guys in the UK so obviously more women will be with white guys here. Regarding the points made at the beginning of this post, I think there are plenty of good looking chinese guys around and some girls will prefer the chinese look to the english look (well I know I do). My guy is very gentlemanly, not possessive at all and has a great sense of humour. Seriously I can't be the only British girl to have met the perfect Chinese boy!! They are out there if you look for them! |
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