| Do Chinese women prefer to marry a house husband? | |
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| Dec 2, 2010 11:05 | #11   |
 | Cherry you are a woman. Women have ways of making men do things for them. ;o) |
| Dec 4, 2010 21:30 | #12 |
| Quote:Originally Posted by GAFFER Cherry you are a woman. Women have ways of making men do things for them. ;o)OK, I will try after we get married. Gaffer, may I ask you a question "Are you willing to do house chores or cooking? Or you are just "forced" to do these things?" Do you feel tired sometimes? |
| Dec 6, 2010 10:26 | #13 |
| We have a 50:50 relationship and share all the household chores (and decisions). Actually I don't mind doing most things and quite enjoy cooking, but she doesn't like ironing ;o) |
| Dec 7, 2010 00:55 | #14 |
| Quote:Originally Posted by GAFFER We have a 50:50 relationship and share all the household chores (and decisions). Actually I don't mind doing most things and quite enjoy cooking, but she doesn't like ironing ;o)What a good husband, Gaffer. Most girls do not like washing vegetables and dishes because they are afraid that their hands may be hurt. So my boyfriend washes vegetables and dishes. I just do cooking. He doesn't like cooking but he is willing to wash clothes.  |
| Jan 17, 2011 00:21 | #15 |
| GUEST110 | I go working 9-10 hours the day, sometimes at the weekend. I m the one who cook at home, i wash clothes, iron them, i clean the appartment, wash the dishes,etc.. What does my wife? working the most of the time... i would wish that we divide the housework a bit better.. but i can not let her cook, washing clothes is also difficult for her and washing dishes also not.... The only thing is that i maybe dont earn "much" money... but its enough for the appartment, eating, drinking and other things.. |
| Jan 20, 2011 01:33 | #16 |
| GUEST110, The one who supports the family has the final say at home. She earns more than you. Apparently, se enjoy a higher status. Do you care much about your "face"? Many Chinese men do not want to be house-husbands. They think it is a disgrace if their wives support their families. |
| Jan 25, 2011 11:10 | #17 |
| "The one who supports the family has the final say at home." ??? So marriage is finally only an economical arrangement? No respect for other no matter what one earns, where one comes, what ones parents do? Everything is measured with the amount of money one brings home? I say the one who has the final say at home is the man. I have it. I don't say it but I have it... Carlos |
| Jan 29, 2011 21:56 | #18 |
| Quote:Originally Posted by CARLOS I say the one who has the final say at home is the man. I have it. I don't say it but I have it... Carlos Haha, are you a chauvinist? I guess "Not". To make your family peaceful and happy, both the husband and the wife need to make the decision together. |
Last edited by RAINDROP: Jan 29, 2011 21:57 |
| Jan 30, 2011 04:04 | #19 |
| Ok, Raindrop, I am a chauvinist and to be frank I often say the last word. Despite of that we make decisions together, my lao po says what we do and I say the last word: "Yes, my love" "Of course, my love"... Carlos |
| Jan 30, 2011 06:38 | #20 |
| Quote:Originally Posted by CARLOS Ok, Raindrop, I am a chauvinist and to be frank I often say the last word.Despite of that we make decisions together, my lao po says what we do and I say the last word: "Yes, my love" "Of course, my love"... Carlos Sounds like our house too. Anything for a peaceful life |
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