Love is simple but marriage is complicated!

Love is simple but marriage is complicated!
Dec 16, 2010 03:04
guestChineseman	An official survey conducted by China Women’s Federation, China Association of Social Workers and a Chinese dating website shows that more than 70 percent women require that their future husband should have a house, a stable job and a certain sum of bank savings. Love is simple and blind. When you two fall in love, you do not care about other things. She/he is the only thing you care. When you decide to step into marriage, a big problem occurs. Girls require their husband to buy a house and a car (that would be better if he can). If you can not afford to buy an apartment, she might say “bye-bye” to you. Marriage is of two parties concerned. Women require their husbands to buy apartments but what should men require? How can they know if their women just love their houses or them?

Dec 16, 2010 03:04

guestChineseman

An official survey conducted by China Women’s Federation, China Association of Social Workers and a Chinese dating website shows that more than 70 percent women require that their future husband should have a house, a stable job and a certain sum of bank savings.

Love is simple and blind. When you two fall in love, you do not care about other things. She/he is the only thing you care. When you decide to step into marriage, a big problem occurs. Girls require their husband to buy a house and a car (that would be better if he can). If you can not afford to buy an apartment, she might say “bye-bye” to you.

Marriage is of two parties concerned. Women require their husbands to buy apartments but what should men require? How can they know if their women just love their houses or them?

Dec 19, 2010 02:56	#1
GUEST9647	Marriage is of two parties concerned. Women require their husbands to buy apartments but what should men require? How can they know if their women just love their houses or them? You already have an answer. More than 70 percent women require their future husbands to have a house. Obviously, houses are much more important than husbands.

Jan 9, 2011 23:51

GUESTTRISH

in China it really often seems that wealth is more important then other things, Love is something that can fade away, but a house will stand.
Of course its not everytime like this, but i heard quite often about it.
So what can "man" require? Beauty? Sex? I say that also the woman can help to buy the house, also the woman can go work and the man stays at home.
Everybody who only thinks about the house or money should really never find the "right" man till they learned not to require everything from men.

Jan 10, 2011 00:02

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Originally Posted by GUEST9647

Marriage is of two parties concerned. Women require their husbands to buy apartments but what should men require? How can they know if their women just love their houses or them?

You already have an answer. More than 70 percent women require their future husbands to have a house. Obviously, houses are much more important than husbands.

GUEST9647,

At least there are still 30 percent women who do not think so. If my man can not afford to buy an apartment, I would not force him to do it. Instead, I will help him buy us an apartment.

Jan 10, 2011 10:41	#4
CARLOS Points: Join Date: Sep 10, 2007 Status: Offline	Is there really a problem? I mean, isn't there growing amount of women who can't find a husband? Are men really so desperate that they can't say ok, then you are not my future wife if the lady insists him to buy a house before she says yes? Carlos

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