Do Chinese Girls Mean what they Say?

Do Chinese Girls Mean what they Say?
Feb 2, 2011 07:32
guest63156	I have been having a relationship with a chinese girl living in the West. She is in an unhappy realtionship with a boy who cares little for her and gives her no love or attention. She does not love him and they are only together becasue of their baby. She keeps telling me Wo ai Ni, and that life would be so much better with me, and that i am the right man for her. i adore and love her and she readily admits to how wonderful we are together. She will however not let me break up my relationship with my partner so we can be togther, saying it is wrong to do so. I am confused, how can she say she loves me and sleeps with me is terribly unhappy with her partner but will not allow me to be with her? i am confused...

Feb 2, 2011 07:32

guest63156

I have been having a relationship with a chinese girl living in the West. She is in an unhappy realtionship with a boy who cares little for her and gives her no love or attention. She does not love him and they are only together becasue of their baby.
She keeps telling me Wo ai Ni, and that life would be so much better with me, and that i am the right man for her. i adore and love her and she readily admits to how wonderful we are together.
She will however not let me break up my relationship with my partner so we can be togther, saying it is wrong to do so.
I am confused, how can she say she loves me and sleeps with me is terribly unhappy with her partner but will not allow me to be with her? i am confused...

Feb 5, 2011 21:34

DODGER
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Guest63156, I used to know a young man who would only date married women, or women in long term relationships.
I asked him why. His reply was to the affect that most would pay for dinner, it was easy to get them into bed, and lastly that he was in complete control with a no ‘strings attached’ clause.
Thirty years latter and he is still using the same M. O.
As you have no way to verify the veracity of you Lovers statements in regards to her living arrangements with her partner, or her happiness within that relationship, and then add the hypocritical, “She will however not let me break up my relationship with my partner so we can be together, saying it is wrong to do so”, then I would have to conclude that she is having you on; big time.
It is not just a game played by Chinese women.

Cheers, Dodger.

Feb 6, 2011 22:23	#2
BOBERT Points: Join Date: Jan 1, 2009 Status: Offline	Quote: Originally Posted by DODGER Guest63156, I used to know a young man who would only date married women, or women in long term relationships. Would that mans name by any chamce be....Roger? There is an old axiom that all philanderers know well and may also apply here. Never enter a relationship with anyone who doesn't have as much to lose as you.
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Feb 7, 2011 02:45	#3
DODGER Points: Join Date: Jul 15, 2007 Status: Offline	Bob, no, it was defiantly not Roger. But back to the main thread; would this bloke in ‘pillow talk mode’ expect this women to be saying nice things about her partner? Everybody needs to rationalize their actions, even by telling porkies. And in this case they sound like big ones. Dodger.

Feb 7, 2011 13:29	#4
BOBERT Points: Join Date: Jan 1, 2009 Status: Offline	Not Roger? Then maybe it was Bob. Couldn't agree more Dodger. Extolling the virtues of your husband and marriage is highly unlikely to engender great foreplay in her new tryst. However praising the new liaison and highlighting the diffences between the old and the new is. Enjoy the ride Guest 63156, because that's all it is.
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