Dumped all of a sudden

Dumped all of a sudden
Mar 24, 2014 05:29
guest30254	I am from Australia and was dating a Taiwanese girl for 2 months. She is 26, I am 34. We made love on a regular basis so I would like to think that indicates some form of commitment. She went back to Taiwan and we communicated for the first few days. I made sure to send her a message every few days. It has now been months since she last communicated with me. I still see her on instant messaging but everytime I ask her how she is doing, she ignores it and goes offline. Was she using me for sex? Filling an emotional need? She did not seem like the type of girl to just use people. We were very open with our communication when we were together so I find it very unusual she is avoiding me. But that's only my perspective. Advice would be much appreciated.

Mar 24, 2014 05:29

guest30254

I am from Australia and was dating a Taiwanese girl for 2 months. She is 26, I am 34. We made love on a regular basis so I would like to think that indicates some form of commitment.

She went back to Taiwan and we communicated for the first few days. I made sure to send her a message every few days.

It has now been months since she last communicated with me. I still see her on instant messaging but everytime I ask her how she is doing, she ignores it and goes offline.

Was she using me for sex? Filling an emotional need? She did not seem like the type of girl to just use people.

We were very open with our communication when we were together so I find it very unusual she is avoiding me. But that's only my perspective.

Advice would be much appreciated.

Apr 2, 2014 16:58

GUEST92131

"Did she use you for sex" - very possible.

"Filling an emotional need?" - very possible.

Maybe she has a boyfriend, who cheated on her, so she wanted to avenge - and she found you.

Maybe somebody talked her out of dating an Aussi - so she did a 180.

Maybe she didn't like your nose, or any other part of your body - so she left.

maybe she is not ready for the next step, and doesn't want you keep hanging.

You see, everything's possible. Close that chapter and move on.

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