| a chinese girlfriend or wife?? | |
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| Dec 6, 2007 03:54 | #11   |
| GUEST61196 | there was this chinese girl at work, im studying chinese and she was impressed that i do! :) i got to know her and after 2 weeks or so i asked to the movies she said yes straight away. it was cool, but then a while ago now she went to china for a holiday 3 months and i told her how i felt about her b4 she left and exlpained i didnt wnat her to feel bad, just how i feel... i was sometimes sure she liked me more than a friend then other times i wasnt... she will be back next year early....will she forget about me? or will there be sumfin? |
| Jan 8, 2008 03:57 | #12 |
| GUEST92408 | Well there are two types of chinese girls who are in china with foreign bf's. Those who returned back from overseas with their bf's. And there must be some who are "bar girls". They went out to the bars where foreigners hang out, with the hope of getting paid well at lower risk of problems, Or to get engaged. |
| Jan 10, 2008 01:57 | #13 |
| GUEST61163 | in my view, with the curiosity, most Chinese Girl would like to communicate with the foreigners. |
| Jan 10, 2008 19:03 | #14 |
 | Well there are two types of chinese girls who are in china with foreign bf's. Those who returned back from overseas with their bf's. And there must be some who are "bar girls". They went out to the bars where foreigners hang out, with the hope of getting paid well at lower risk of problems, Or to get engaged. Two types? What cave have you been living in? China has a very unique social issue. For one thing, divorce is a relatively new concept there, so it carries a stigma with it that is not seen in western countries and two, the one-child law makes a woman that is divorced with a child unwanted. There are more divorced/widowed women in China that want to be married but are "off-limits" to Chinese men than the entire population of the U.S. Many Chinese divorcee/widow do not and will not accept a Chinese man for a husband again. They are tired of being treated as a maid and a whore. They want to be loved and they want to be able to give their love and know it is appreciated. If you look around the personals websites, you will find millions of ads from Chinese women. I have been fortunate enough to find a Chinese finance. You could only be so lucky. They are not the least but sub-serviant and not the least bit docile...They dote on their loved ones because to them, love is an action, not just a word. Piss one off and she will show you where you can stick your docile... |
| Jan 20, 2008 11:10 | #15 |
| GUEST18599 | Yes i love it |
| Jan 22, 2008 22:46 | #16 |
| GUEST60248 | I'm married to a Japanese woman, and I know many other Western men who are also. Japanese women are just fake: They act shy, submissive, but they really love money, and will spend, spend, spend. They like sex before marriage, but don't like it after they've had a child or two. This whole myth about Japanes women being hot in the sack only applies to single Japanese women. It seems once they marry they go into a completely programmed mode. I had a Chinese girlfriend in the past. I can say that 1 one sexy, sincere Chinese woman is worth more than 10 Japanese women. I hope to divorce my Japanese wife in the future and find a Chinese wife. |
| Jan 24, 2008 16:27 | #17 |
| GUEST47713 | i can't believe some of the things people say on this website... |
| May 12, 2008 10:05 | #18 |
| GUEST09128 | haha, i am a chinese girl and found your comments humorous :-) The cultures are indeed so different between China and other countries... In your culture, sex dominates, while in our culture, love is the priority... Though i have worked with foreigners a lot, i still can't understand how you value sex more than love... Just like i still like tea more than coffee... |
| May 13, 2008 20:34 | #19 |
| "The cultures are indeed so different between China and other countries... In your culture, sex dominates, while in our culture, love is the priority... Though i have worked with foreigners a lot, i still can't understand how you value sex more than love..." Erm… don’t judge all foreigners by actions of some foreigners that you know. Just because there are some who sound like pathetic salivating DOMs, it doesn’t mean all foreigners are like that. Other countries value love too. It’s an individual thing, not based on a country. |
| May 20, 2008 08:59 | #20 |
| GUEST89641 | Guest GL. You Foreigners are so full of shit. You keep insisting that Chinese men are domineering and want to control their women for the simple reason that that is exactly what you want to do. You prize Chinese women because they are prettier, and because you have this sick fantasy about demure little Chinese girls who will satisfy your every sick whim, so you leverage all means of economic and social inequalities to keep Chinese men down. I know lots of Chinese girls who move overseas, but refuse to take Foreign citizenship. I guess that's their lifeline, in case they get beaten or worse by their Foreign husbands. A great majority of them end up regretting their decisions, but have no other recourse but to support your twisted views because they are no longer welcomed in China. Their arguements are not based on reason but hate. Do you think what I say is a myth? Perhaps China should close this loophole in their in their system, and give them a two year limit to decide before their Chinese citizenship is automatically revoked. Globalization is just a concept fabricated by the West to gain political and societal control over other sovereign states. By the way, have you heard recently about an Austrian (White) man who imprisoned his own daughter in the basement, and have been raping her for the last some twenty years. Even fathered children with her. "If they catch one, ten gets away." Doesn't look like we are the ones with a control problem....LOL. By the way, I am Chinese and I married Chinese.....As it should be. |
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