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How do western guys really think about their Chinese girlfriends
Oct 12, 2010 04:16	#101
GUESTJAVIER	Quote: Originally Posted by GUEST20236 well let me tell you something, the western men that are going for the Chinese women are the ones have being rejected from the western women or men with allot of mental and psychological problems. Men that are afraid the western no needy women like the Chinese ones that are looking their way out of their poor misery. So chinese ladies you can h... Think in the possibility that a chinese chinese woman can find a western man who is really in love with her. She feels herself loved and safe and found somebody who cares of her. Maybe she is not a poor girl, maybe her family has got a good social and economic status. I don't think I am a loser, really. I am just a normal spanish man. I have a good job and two incredible children. I never felt myself rejected by women in Spain, really. Maybe I am an exception, but I don't think so. Once I asked my GF why she stayed by me and she told me that I was so different to other men she met or even from her ex-husband, because I respect her, ask her always for her opinion and she knows that for me, my family is always first and this is really important for her, too. And our physicall relations were so pleasant for her too. Sometimes I think that a lot of couples in Europe are made by two men, one of them seems to be a woman. Think about.

Oct 12, 2010 04:16

#101

GUESTJAVIER

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Originally Posted by GUEST20236

well let me tell you something, the western men that are going for the Chinese women are the ones have being rejected from the western women or men with allot of mental and psychological problems. Men that are afraid the western no needy women like the Chinese ones that are looking their way out of their poor misery.
So chinese ladies you can h...

Think in the possibility that a chinese chinese woman can find a western man who is really in love with her. She feels herself loved and safe and found somebody who cares of her. Maybe she is not a poor girl, maybe her family has got a good social and economic status. I don't think I am a loser, really. I am just a normal spanish man. I have a good job and two incredible children. I never felt myself rejected by women in Spain, really. Maybe I am an exception, but I don't think so.

Once I asked my GF why she stayed by me and she told me that I was so different to other men she met or even from her ex-husband, because I respect her, ask her always for her opinion and she knows that for me, my family is always first and this is really important for her, too. And our physicall relations were so pleasant for her too.

Sometimes I think that a lot of couples in Europe are made by two men, one of them seems to be a woman.

Think about.

Nov 5, 2010 04:09

#102

GUEST78254

it is really nice to reading all the stories here . i am a chinese girl and my boyfriend is from USA .i love him not beacuse he is a Caucasian or i want get a visa something .. haha a lot of people mention that is the common reason for a chinese girl married with a forigner . for me that's really funnny . . i am not looking for a caucasian boyfriend or what . i love him just because who he is . humorous,honesy .beautiful and i like that they just talking everything with you . never hide emotion or something . also i like the way he speak chinese . hahaha the way he staring me when i eat duck feet . just i feel good when i stay with him .i think a visa can not let me feeling in this way . lol sorry if my english funny .

Nov 8, 2010 22:01	#103
JENNIFERSHIN Points: Join Date: Nov 8, 2010 Status: Offline	Well, let's not define women by nationalities, but just by all the different characters. there are wonderful women everywhere on this planet, as well as the lousy ones. All I wish is, the wonderful ones stay with the wonderful ones, and the lousy ones, stay out of your world. LOL.

Jan 24, 2011 22:22	#104
GUESTJAY	Hey! INMEDIC! I honestly hate to sound like a jerk, but you leave me no choice... You're an idiot! The topic is about the interest displayed by western men, in respects to the reasons why they choose to become intimately involved with Chinese women. So please explain to me, what the hell you training in "Martial Arts" has to do with this thread???? enlighten me, fecal matter for brains!!

Feb 13, 2011 14:48

#105

GUEST20149

I entered my thoughts into this discussion back on 27 July 2009 (GUEST22441) and updated on 20 December 2009 (GUEST17319) - check my post on pages 7 and 8. I married “my Chinese girlfriend” in January of 2010 and our son was born in November of 2011. I can assure you that we both feel extremely lucky to have found our soul mates in this world and that our future is very bright.

Wow. What is it with race anyway? Honestly, I’ve never thought of her as Chinese – she is a tremendous human being, my wife, my best friend, and the person I was always meant to be with. What else matters? Do I care that she looks somewhat somewhat different than me (she is quite beautiful, by the way), or that our son was lucky enough to inherit features from both of us? God no! I’ve never been happier in my life and I know she feels the same way.

I am saddened when I read posts made by people that insist that when a Chinese woman wants to pursue a relationship with a westerner that means that they are either, (1) looking for some kind of “sugar daddy”, or (2) that the western guy is some kind of loser. Sure, this might be true in isolated cases; however, I can assure you that the vast majority are looking for someone of ANY race that, (1) truly loves them for the person that they are, (2) shares their values, (3) that respects them, and (4) that will share their future together as equals. Isn’t this true of anyone, whether mixed race or otherwise?

Once again, I don’t allow myself to sink to the level of people that suggest that I’ve somehow stolen something form Chinese men by marrying a Chinese woman. From time to time I’ve experienced this kind of thing in person when we walk the streets of Chinatown here in Canada… …usually in the form of a nasty look, but occasionally in the form of a certain finger being shown, etc. I’ve always smiled and treated the person with respect. Ignorance is something to pity, not to be angered by.

In my opinion such cases are usually related to rationalizing frustration when it comes to finding someone special (no matter what race you are) rather than looking in the mirror and realizing that (maybe) they need to put some effort into self-improvement. If you are one of these people then please read my 3rd paragraph again for suggestions.

How do I feel about my Chines girlfriend (now my wife and the mother of my son)? I love her more than anything in this world. Period.

Get over the race issue people. Open your eyes and see what’s right in front of you - you might find something incredible!

Feb 13, 2011 21:13	#106
GUEST110	Honestly? Because i love her... The cultural different is sometimes challenging... i just like her personallity and character.. her smile, her voice... I m together with her because i love her... i also would be together with a American, French, or maybe even Turkish girl...

Feb 17, 2011 19:35

#107

GUEST62201

I like reading all the posts because it's nice to know different opinions.I have a bit different understanding of this topic. I agree with the general positive comments on Chinese girls. We are petite, sincere, beautiful and most time very smart. I know many western guys choose Chinese women especially because of they being very very gentle and good 'followers'. Well, to be honest, it acutally shows that Chinese women lacking strong personalities or characteristics. We never, hardly, say "no". We always say yes. And it makes people feel good, shamfully or not!

Mar 22, 2011 01:02

#108

SOBERBEIJING
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[quote=APAULT ,35027]I had Chinese girlfriends a few years ago in my home country, but not when I was China, tho I had good female friends there. Why did I have Chinese girlfriends? Because I met some! You go out with people you meet...and if men come to China to work... they meet Chinese girls/women. [/quote]

So where exactly do you meet with such women?

What if, well, you can't meet such Chinese women?

Apr 16, 2011 17:00

#109

GUEST68168

My bf of 3 years left me for a Chinese woman. We spent a year in China teaching english then both came back to our country, he decided he would go back, but we wanted to mantain our relationship. We lasted maybe 4 months LD before he said it was over. I was shocked, he had met someone else. 3 years for nothing and we had agreed our relationship was so special, never fighting and always on the same wavelength. After only a year together, they`re getting married and moving back here. He wants to see me and be friends. Yeah, no. Even his sister emailed me saying how sweet I was and I got the sense she felt he was in the wrong. He said he felt that he SHOULD feel guilty. Hah. How cold.
Wonder if she`s calculating enough to play him just to get into our country. Either way, he`s not coming crawling back to me (my sis already said she'd beat me if I even considered it haha). I`m a slim, pretty blonde with blue eyes and I'm attending university. I've got enough going for me and have had many guys trying to pick me up since the break-up. Already got a new bf and he`s so sweet and kind to me, though now I'm much more skeptical of men unfortunately.. They can run for the hills at random it would seem.

Apr 23, 2011 08:26	#110
LILY_LITTLEDUMB Points: Join Date: Apr 23, 2011 Status: Offline	[quote=CHYNAGYRL ,35312]I enjoyed reading these stories. They're pretty romantic! I know some couples like these in Canada. The guys call themselves "eggs" -- white on the outside and yellow inside. ha ha![/quote] hahaha, just like we have bananas here, yellow inside and white outside

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