| How do western guys really think about their Chinese girlfriends | |
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| Apr 26, 2011 09:02 | #111   |
| GUEST43157 | It is great to read all these romantic stories. I am a Chinese girl who studies and lives in U.S. I am traveling in Europe these days and met a white guy who is younger than me( but he thinks I am younger than him.) We had great conversation and had a bottle of beer( I don't drink actually.) We had a great time that evening. He approached and kissed me like a hundred of times that night. I felt I was in a dream. Can't believe the things happening. I never expect a relationship with him because I am leaving but I never would forget that kisses which totally aroused me. |
| May 1, 2011 19:36 | #112 |
| GUEST24169 | coz they love chinese girls |
| May 3, 2011 01:39 | #113 |
| GUEST36124 | to#111 i'm also a chinese girl and once dated an indian guy and he kissed me the same way one who haven't experienced that would never be able to understand how we felt |
| May 3, 2011 06:10 | #114 |
 | to#57 i can feel your tender heart though your words. you really care for her and love her. i think chinese girls are all looking for a sense of safety and they would feel so blessed to meet someone like you buddy who cares for her sincerely and love her so much that you somehow don't know what is the right thing to do. i think you should tell her and try to say it with a room of negotiation. you need to give her time to think it over. when she finally think it over,i'm sure you two will have a happy ending. good luck with you~ |
| May 3, 2011 06:16 | #115 |
| thank you for all the wonderful views here. they help me arouse my passion for love and for life again |
| May 22, 2011 04:10 | #116 |
| GUEST13424 | What a great forum topic - I have been watching this for a while and thought I must share my thoughts and experiences with you..... I met a wonderful Chinese girl - She has lived in the UK for about 11 years - she has got naturalised UK citizenship (so she has a UK passport). She has her own property back in China and works hard in the UK to support herself. We sat next to each other - we spoke - we exchanged numbers - she called me - I called her - we met - we fell in love - and we are so happy together ... and what pleases me so much is that I was not a friend of someone she knows, I was not introduced to her, she had not heard anything about me from someone else and we’ve not got to know each through work. We have just learnt to know and love each other from us just being together - and it’s been great fun. She is a beautiful, stunning, tall, slim, sweet, caring, sexy, attractive, attentive, charming, charismatic woman and has a gracefulness about her that only a truly beautiful woman can carry off................and so much more .......... - Do I love her because she is Chinese? - yes - I love her oriental looks - Do I love her because she is beautiful?- yes - Because this Chinese girl is beautiful! - Do I love her JUST because she is Chinese & JUST because she is beautiful?... no - I love her because she has shown me a different side of life by means of her heritage and culture - not one that I have experienced with European girls - one of fun, happiness, love, devotion and caring. Where her joy is complete if we can walk down the road in the rain and hold each other’s hand - where we can speak together about anything we want, where she wants to care for me, and I for her, where she wants to look after me and where she feels 'safe' in my company….... and all the other things that anyone else in the world will tell you has happened to them when they have found that very special person and fallen in love... So in answer to the original question 'How do western guys really think about their Chinese girlfriends'..... race is not important - love is love.... wherever you come from ! |
| May 22, 2011 20:20 | #117 |
| GUESTBILAL | well beautiful ur couple please give a advise to make such a couple with me on yahoo.com|muhammad_bilal50 |
| Jun 22, 2011 18:13 | #118 |
| GUEST57122 | I too have a Chinese wife. I agree with everything you say, among the other qualities that Chinese women have that western women don't is they don't have the us against them attitude that western women have toward men and they are not afraid to be feminine. My wife is an accomplished professional yet she doesn't have a man's haircut or dress like a man like her western counterparts do. She is not afraid to treat a man llike a man, doesen't expect or want an emasculated metrosexual, and loves to be treated like a woman. |
| Jun 24, 2011 10:13 | #119 |
| To GUEST57122 - seems like we have the same experiences - following my earlier post (May 22, 2011 04:10) - my Chinese partner was very successful in her job in China before she decided to come to the UK and is financially secure, very astute and extremely clever in everything she says and does, coming from a very male orientated world in China, she has proved herself to be very very able. But when it comes to pleasing and caring for the 'man in her life' then that is a top priority for her..... but not in a subservient or feminist way (I would find that very difficult to cope with) - but more of a caring, attentive and deeply affectionate, loving and very desirable feminine way, not trying to prove a point or win an argument or to prove herself in any way, she is there for me like a rock in a storm or a butterfly in a breeze - 100% devoted to making our relationship successful and long lasting - and that in a 'western' woman I feel would be a very difficult thing to find. |
| Jul 13, 2011 01:35 | #120 |
| GUEST15415 | The modern Chinese woman is still attractive but very selfish and not as dedicated to family. I married a Chinese woman and I still prefer her to a western woman however, like I said, selfish and not as dedicated as previous generations. |
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