| How do western guys really think about their Chinese girlfriends | |
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| Jan 1, 2010 16:35 | #81   |
 | I think its odd how many women are looking for western men rather than Chinese whom in my opinion are perfectly acceptable and treat them just as well as the average westerner. i think the answer has to be money and status. i myself had a boyfriend from china and he treated me well in fact better than any of my previous English boyfriends, this was not to get anything from me as he met me in England and made more money than i did. |
| Jan 19, 2010 14:12 | #82 |
| GUEST11861 | if she is not good at english, she may have difficulties to express how much she loves you. But WHEN you have some thing confused you, i think you need to ask her. good luck ! |
| Jan 26, 2010 04:24 | #83 |
| GUEST85213 | As a western man i think asian women look like children. Men that go out with them are generally pedophiles. |
| Jan 31, 2010 08:11 | #84 |
| GUEST66220 | You western guys are such losers. Can't find a woman in your own countries, so you exploit silly chinese woman. |
| Jan 31, 2010 15:23 | #85 |
| GUEST22115 | I am spanish and live in Spain. I widowed three years ago.I was married with her 18 years long. She was diagnosed of a stomach cancer 4 years before dying and I stayed by her and our children these hard 4 years long. Even I had to get my job out while the hardest period of her illness. For the next 2 years my life was focused in taking care of my two children (15 and 11 years old now) and my new job as purchasing manager of a spanish company working in distribution of industrial equipment. Through a B2B website, I took contact with a chinese company that supplies some products we are interested in buying for our customers. I started a commercial relation with this company and my correspondant is the overseas manager, a woman. We started working together and we used to contact in english through MSN like chinese business people usually do. One saturday night, i was surfing the net at home and my MNS connection was open as available. So, she politely say good evening, still workin'? and I informed her I wasn't and started talking about some personal things, like vacations, weekends, and so on. So, after a while, our relation was getting more and more personal and close. She has a senior degree in international marketing and she's fluent in 4 languages. In a chinese trade fair, we met in person and I was, even I had seen some pics of her, really impressed by her beauty and charming. I was already impressed by her intelligent and funny company too. After some "close contacts" once every two or three months, I am now really decided to propose her to share our lifes. And I am not thinking in which things do attract me in her, i am just in love with her, because she is intelligent, affective, charming and beautiful. She could be russian, or northamerican and my opinion should be the same. Maybe, being an oriental woman makes her more beautiful to my eyes, but this is not for me her best charme, really. I am 47 and have 2 children, and she is 27 and is single. this is really an important difference, but she is really a mentally mature woman and I am sure we will be happy together. Why do I think she is attracted by me? Just because thanks to my job and to my relation with her, I knew what is the usual relation between chinese men and their women, and I really understand why a lot of chinese women are into western men. And the word is "respect". I respect her, as I used to respect my wife or I should respect her if I had a spanish girlfriend, and will treat her as an equal. And I prefer to have a loving relation with an affective girl than with a resentful divorced witch in her forties, really. She told me once she wanted me to treat her like a princess, and that's what i am trying to do, but just because, she IS my princess. Nothing different than I did with my wife, anyway. |
| Jan 31, 2010 20:34 | #86 |
| GUEST17197 | Hahaha, get real!! "Can't find a woman in your own countries" - come on, in the USA, the divorce rate is close to 66%, which means, that most men HAVE found women, except that they were the WRONG women! "So you exploit silly Chinese women" - are you kidding?! do you know who's silly here? you, of course, for making such a stupid statement. |
| Feb 5, 2010 23:32 | #87 |
| GUESTTIGERYID | I am in a relationship with a Chinese girl. I have dated, and been in relationships with other girls from various backgrounds, and I myself am an Australian of Jewish descent. Now, my reason for being in a relationship with her is that we met at a club. She could have been from anywhere????So her ethnicity played no part in it. In terms of cultural differences, there are many, this is often exciting, sometimes confusing, but this would be no different with anyone other culture, I mean to say, there are always differences, but different differences, but what unites us, is the similarities. Chinese women are very empowered, and this is a great attaction for me personally. They really have achieved allot, are very intelligent, and extremaly caring in a practical sense. There is no fluffing around with verbous meaningless banter. Generally, words are spoken with intension, and this, is the greatest attraction. Some friends of mine have said that they think Chinese girls are rather high maintenance....this is, in my opinion the greatest misunderstanding of all. Chinese girls are no more high maintenance than any other nationality. Dating my my girlfirend and building a life with her, is very rewarding, culturally stimulating. |
| Mar 7, 2010 11:51 | #88 |
| Well guys many people have very correctly portrayed Chinese girls. Indeed they are the best on this earth. Western women are too empty, high headed, trouble generators. They totally miss the substance. There is surely NO MATCH of Chinese girls. They are extremely caring and committed. Not to mention they are extremely beautiful and great skin. They are in shape most of their life. Disciplined, sincere and focussed ! I have been dating a lovely Chinese girl and she is best asset !! Guys nothing to beat a Chinese girl !!! |
| Mar 8, 2010 12:21 | #89 |
| GUESTWOLF DA... | My GF is Chinese, I love her. That is how I feel about my GF. I had an abusive cheating wife, who left me. then I met my Chinese GF she healed my heart. I am happy now. Everyone says, "how do I get my Chinese GF into America (or other country)" I will move to China to be with her.... |
| Apr 8, 2010 04:42 | #90 |
| GUEST16048 | i would like to ask you guys, if your native countries are not developed countries, will these chinese women treat you well. Many chinese women normally treat men from developed countries better than chinese men or men from developing countries. Maybe all of you have not thought about or realised this. |
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