| How do western guys really think about their Chinese girlfriends | |
|---|---|
| Aug 27, 2009 19:18 | #71   |
 | Baron I agree with you, as you said intercultural relationships definately spice up both cultural sides and lifestyles. Well said. LB |
| Aug 27, 2009 19:28 | #72 |
| That's true Baron.They are so genuine. |
| Sep 23, 2009 21:54 | #73 |
| GUESTPUG | Quote:Originally Posted by BIENVENUE I think people should talk about and share his/her own story or experiences, pls try to not generalizing Chinese women, good or bad.Chinese girl search for Western man because they are mature but for me, I would prefer go for Asians (Koreans). Why? the reason that I watched the youtube about a Mainlander treat the Korean are bad but I don't feel it at all because my friend is from Korea now in Canada. KOREAN AND SOUTH KOREA IS THE BEST COUNTRY AS LIKE JAPAN. |
| Oct 4, 2009 22:05 | #74 |
| GUEST54957 | the answere it's only one, they failled in theirs countries, they are not men, but something closer to an animals than to a person, they are pathetics, they only things they want is shag'em 'cause they hadn't never success with the women in theirs countries, and in the life too. they are here ( they say to teach english, they believe to be educators, most of them *** and miserable shit'snegros, and they say to have the mission to teach english that just i don't understand what is usefull for, seen htere is spoken chinese ???? |
| Oct 5, 2009 15:24 | #75 |
| GUEST12782 | Let me take you back to the day that I met my China girl When I landed a 'Pam' like on the San Fran Real World I was sweating like a vegetable inside of a wok I'd never been to Asia Minor but I was gonna Bangkok Like Kristy Yamaguchi I had to break the ice Should I talk about Mothra M*A*S*H or shrimp-fried rice? I was sharp as a Chinese star but it's a line I threw Just thirty seconds over Tokyo and this Johnny would Woo I took a shot like Jeanette Lee put on my moves like Bruce Lee I told he every Soon Yi needs a little Woody She said for all the tea in China my vagina's not free But my love will linger longer than the Ming Dynasty I said I needed her to do and her to do my laundry I knew she needed a way to stay legally within the country She was made in Taiwan I said I'm O.K. with that Just promise me you'll never try to eat my cat Chinky chinky bang bang I love you Chinky chinky bang bang I know you love me too In Japan the hand is used as a knife In Japan a man's wife's hand job than can cost him his life But now this Captain Kirk has his own Sulu I'll shampoo her Foo Man Chu with Lo Hung Wang Goo Cause I ride my slant-eyed slope like a brand new Kawasaki Oh me chinky she's so kinky got me hot like Nagasaki Burnin' up like Napalm burstin' like an A-bomb I think I got that jungle fever but I caught it in 'Nam She's like an oriental rug cause I lay her where I please Then I blindfold her with dental floss and get down on her knees I'm a diving Kamikaze eating out Chinese First I'll have the poo-poo platter than some tuna sushi She'll be screaming like Godzilla and kickin' like Jackie Chan I'll get her redder than China wetter than the Sea of Japan Like the Chinese New Year she's gonna see fireworks Now be a good chinky and press Jimmy's shirts Chinky chinky bang bang I love you Chinky chinky bang bang I know you love me too Sing chinky sing One more time Chinky chinky bang bang I love you Chinky chinky bang bang I know you love me too Chinky chinky bang bang chinky bang Chinky chinky bang biddily biddily biddily bang |
| Oct 23, 2009 10:01 | #76 |
| GUEST45136 | I am a Western woman with a Chinese boyfriend. I love him because he is a nice person. I don't frame my choice to be with him around race. Of course there are many kind Western men too, some selfish as hell, some as sweet as heaven. Idiots come in both genders, all races, I like to think it is an international club: "Assh*les International". Anyone can be a member. Too often people harbour resentments and think that 'marrying out' of their culture will bring solutions. This is naive. Human beings are human beings. Everone has got baggage. I love the way you describe Western ladies as if they are all one breed and type. This is called 'othering' and it upsets me because I am a caring and giving person, not self centred like you describe 'us'. I would hate my culture to be associated with that of American culture, a culture in which some Chinese believe selfishness is a national trait (not gender trait) . American culture should not be the face of western culture, this saddens me. Women (as a whole) are more giving/ unselfish than men. Women are nurturers bla bla bla (: |
| Oct 30, 2009 18:07 | #77 |
| GUEST82230 | Regarding "Wife" who doesn't write-- I had the same problem with a Russian Fiancee. If you're not physically with the person, it's all a fantasy, no matter what you convince yourself of. The Russian girl bailed on me, I wasted a couple years of my life waiting. Get out now, whatever it takes, before you waste any more time. |
| Dec 20, 2009 16:46 | #78 |
| GUEST17319 | Back on 27 July (message #66), I wrote that I'd met my (now) Chinese fiancée through an on-line dating service (eHarmony). It’s been a while since I checked back to see the responses that followed mine, and I thought I’d comment a bit. First, I’m pleased to reveal that our wedding is going to occur in early January of 2010 and we are looking forward to spending the rest of our lives together. My soon-to-be wife certainly doesn’t fit any racial stereotype – she is simply who she is – a beautiful human being - and I am very fortunate to have her in my life. My family is truly in love with her, and I know that the members of her family feel the same way about me. I don’t want to alienate anyone, but, in my opinion, individuals that apply broad assumptions to another human being based on the other person’s race or culture are showing ignorance. We all have blood of the same color and when I last checked the males and females of the various human races are still capable of producing children together. With the exception of a few differences in appearance (which should be appreciated) we are all far more alike than different. Sure, traditional and modern Chinese culture is different in many ways in comparison to traditional and modern Western culture. Indeed, some dimensions of the Chinese culture may seem unusual to Westerners at first glance. But, to those that bash Chinese (or Western) culture, do yourself a HUGE favor… …learn WHY differences exist. Then, consider that an ancient culture (such as the Chinese culture) has had time to mature over thousands of years. Maybe your first thoughts were based on a lack of understanding instead of anything concrete or real. Maybe there is a lot to be learned and appreciated. Is everything about Chinese culture great? Well, let’s be fair here… …is everything about Western culture great? Of course not. But, I feel that you can absorb the best from both cultures and apply them to your life. I have found that assimilating culture like this makes me a far happier and fulfilled person. Hmmm… …for the Chinese guys that look at me like I’m the worst thing in the world when my fiancée and I walk by (or even go as far to say something to me) … …well, it’s time for you guys to get a life. I don’t look differently at an Asian guy walking with a Western woman – I just see two people walking by me. Let’s be mature and respectful. Drop all of the “you stole something of mine” talk. You don’t “steal” a person because you don’t have any claim of ownership over another human being. My fiancée is an independent human being that found her soulmate. We place no weight whatsoever on race. Honestly, I hope that you find the same thing. I am very pleased to be with a woman that has opened my eyes to so many things. She’s intelligent, honest, hard working, open to new ideas and quite beautiful. These are not racial “traits” or stereotypes - they are the mark of a wonderful human being. |
| Dec 28, 2009 13:12 | #79 |
| GUEST18106 | Because chinese women have the best family culture I have ever found. They are beautifull, sweet and mostly honest. they will make their man always feel great. and after 20 years married to one before it became such a talked about subject. I can tell you she is still the best thing in my life. Rog |
| Dec 29, 2009 21:55 | #80 |
| GUEST60175 | I had been divorced for many years before I went to to China for business. (I am now 53) I ventured back and forth for business more focused on work than meeting anybody. After 3 years (and by then a reasonable comprehension of Mandarin) I met a lady at a business seminar and immediately knew that I found the person that fate had destined me to be with! It was like a bolt of lightning striking me! She is 17 years younger than I. Never married, has the most wonderful nature with a beautiful heart and soul. Is very family oriented, honest, gentle and so sweet. Perhaps now I should mention that she has been on the cover of Asia Vogue magazine!! So is stunningly beautiful. She is highly intelligent and owns 2 businesses herself. We have been in love for over a year now and intend to marry in April of 2010. She will live with here in Australia for 3 years before we move to China to live the rest of our lives together. To all of you, LOVE is the key. Not race or body shape or anything else. I feel as though I have been blessed. |
Post a Reply to: How do western guys really think about their Chinese girlfriends
Copyright © 1998-2024 All rights reserved.