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| Mar 8, 2007 12:51 | #11   |
 | So we should work to explore the theme, Need boy friend, not live together before marry. It come’s from men rule world. Enjoy and trough. |
| Mar 14, 2007 22:11 | #12 |
| In Western countries there is similar pressure on guys to have a good job (cash, credit cards, car)... But there is something different here. Both Asian and Western women like to marry up (ie a guy who is older / wiser / has good finances) but sometimes in Canada it's not like that!! among my family friends -- there is a female opthamologist who married a construction worker, and a female physician who married a plumber... i think they really married for love. The female physician COULD have married another doctor, but she married a plumber (someone who makes much less money). She got cancer, and then her husband took really good care of her while she was sick. That's something that would not have been possible if she married a high-flying professional. Personally, I find that Western girls are more open-minded about a guy's financial status. Asian women think in more traditional ways about gender roles, and more often require their husband to be better earners than they are. |
| Mar 15, 2007 12:29 | #13 |
| CHYNAGYRL, Hi How you realize the secret signals of Asian girls? Are you Asian? |
| Mar 16, 2007 00:34 | #14 |
| cheap? It's depend. Same fact every where in the world. Some are too cheap and some too hot-- no to touch |
| Mar 16, 2007 01:43 | #15 |
| what are you? white? Indian?pakistan?or latin american? |
| Mar 16, 2007 08:54 | #16 |
| You are new in this forum. Genuine members have full filled profile. |
| Mar 19, 2007 01:26 | #17 |
| China boys are under one child policy, they face a huge pressure. As a boy in china, he has to earn a living for himself first, he has to support his parents as well. He needs to pay a huge amount of money to get marriage. After he has a family, he also needs to support his family. It is too stressful for a boy in china today. As a china guy, I really appreciate what my parents 've done to me. Though the government has carried out a vein of policies to reform the condition, the reality is not changed. Many are under poverty line, the plight of them is quite miserable. I mma lucky enough to be born in big cities. |
| Mar 19, 2007 08:24 | #18 |
| “Needs to pay a huge amount of money to get marriage” RAPHAEL, Do you think only boys responsible for this. No duty of the girls. Then how we get up stairs where we are saying:- Boys or Girls, equal every where ( Equal rights). My theme, not leave together. Get marry, be a rail line ============ Do every thing equally to built your future |
| Mar 22, 2007 18:53 | #19 |
| I have a very different view from LP which reflects our cultural backgrounds. I say don't marry in a hurry, experience a few partners first, marry when you find someone special. In defence of this is the cultural reality that we are bombarded with advertising and general media stories which have created many very high expectations. Expectations about possessions, homes, and sex...yes sex is the major topic in most womens magazines for example. Life has become dominated by sex (I am not commenting on whether this is good or bad) - that is a reality. So there is a greater probablity that we are dissatisfied. So check first. What does this mean for societies like China, and most Asian countries? Sure, strive to maintain your existing customs and morals, but it seems to me that just as you will have macDonalds and KFC, you will eventually copy western culture and morals in this area, too. (Maybe the closed China policy that has occurred more than once in China's history had a valid point!) |
| Mar 22, 2007 22:32 | #20 |
| Read, coming soon |
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