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| Oct 22, 2007 20:08 | #11   |
 | Quote, (and he must be a man of calculation) I think that a smart woman will admire a man of calculation. A man of calculation is indeed not an average person. On his own level, all men do a calculus about the person on front and the positive and or negative tag to the next action. |
| Oct 22, 2007 20:24 | #12 |
| Quote: "I think that a smart woman will admire a man of calculation.A man of calculation is indeed not an average person." JCNILE123, probably you are right for saying a smart girl will admire a man of caluclation. Judging from what you have stated, I can infer that you define a smart girl as a girl of calculation. If the two parties are both that kind of person. The two deserve each other, No doubt!!! "On his own level, all men do a calculus about the person on front and the positive and or negative tag to the next action." So, may I take the liberty to say you are a man of calculation yourself? You are a smart man. There must be a lot of ' Smart Girls" going after you. By the way, did you (will you) sign a prenuptial agreement? |
| Oct 22, 2007 21:25 | #13 |
| Iceblue Quote, ((Judging from what you have stated, I can infer that you define a smart girl as a girl of calculation)) I do not see it any other way. Quote, ((So, may I take the liberty to say you are a man of calculation yourself? You are a smart man. There must be a lot of ' Smart Girls" going after you.)) To the question, I must say “yes”, I am sure I am a man of calculation. To your first statement, with humbleness I say “yes” I think I am a smart man. To your second statement, I must say “yes” I have one very smart girl, and she is worth many times many. By and large, I take your statement as a compliment. Will I sign a prenuptial? I will never say no. |
| Oct 22, 2007 23:54 | #14 |
| Of course not, JCNILE123 - quite the opposite. My sense of ICEBLUE's post was that her objection to a pre-nup is based an indication of a man's sincerity. My comment about American women was not particularly kind. It implies that with a pre-nup it would be difficult for a scheming woman to make off with a man's life savings. |
| Oct 25, 2007 05:00 | #15 |
| I won't sign a pre-nup either. For me, to sign a pre-nuptial agreement is a manifestation of distrust. Signing a pre-nup seems to mean 'the distribution of the property' is more important than marriage and love themselves. |
| Oct 25, 2007 07:06 | #16 |
| I have never approached any relationship with the thought that it may or would fail. Perhaps I was a little naïve? Trust must be the corner stone of any relationship whether in business our in love. Zoey’s post alludes to the point that a”Pre Nup”means that there is no underling trust in the first place. Yes there are many scheming women in the world that would see an easy way of making a buck, but when Saturn rises it leaves us defenseless. Dodger. |
| Oct 25, 2007 07:22 | #17 |
| I'm with you Griz - the gamble underlines the strength of the commitment being made, as well as the mutual respect for integrity. Iceblue, I do not think it is necessarily fools who agree to marry people who require a pre-nup, as the calculating nature revealed may demonstrate them to have excellent potential as a financial provider - so maybe both sides may be calculating, and benefit from the merger! Fortunately there are still many of us who prefer the concept of marriage to merger! |
| Oct 25, 2007 10:30 | #18 |
| I don't think there any need Han Jing and myself to sign one, I haven't got anything to lose, only weight, he he |
| Oct 28, 2007 03:57 | #19 |
| I won't sign it, and I will reconsider our relationship if he asks me to do it. Trust is the basic law for a healthy relationship and the marriage. If you doubt you will hold someone's hand until the rest of your life, why waste your time marring him/her? Maybe some people just enjoy the process of marring-divorcing-marring, I am sure they desperately need that pre-agreement...funny |
| Oct 28, 2007 21:05 | #20 |
| Hi ANGIE99, Quote: "Maybe some people just enjoy the process of marring-divorcing-marring, I am sure they desperately need that pre-agreement" You use the word" Enjoy the process"? It is really hard for me to believe that there is such a kind of person. Did you come across such persons, Angie99? |
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