How to deal mother-and daughter in law relationship?

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How to deal mother-and daughter in law relationship?
Apr 20, 2009 02:50	#61
GUEST22252	I will save mom because am her all time pain and my wife she is adhere to me by passion PIET

Jun 3, 2009 19:10

#62

GUEST48140

yeah.. im just stay together with my mother in lawn last year 2008.

And i got one child, and they look after him. Is really a problem to stay together with mother in law. Sometimes need to ask about child matter, she also ask her son in order to ask me direct. Every times see this, i feel uncomfortable and unhappy.. But i can't do everything, my husband also side to her. And we keep quarrel and never end..

Teach me how to do, what to do, i really can't take it anymore.

Jun 9, 2009 04:17	#63
METEOR Points: Join Date: Dec 1, 2008 Status: Offline	Just try to have a talk with your mother in law heart to heart or by her some presents from time to time.

Sep 9, 2010 02:58

#64

ONMYWAY
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Originally Posted by JIMMYB

Well, here is a question for you all. If your wife and your mom fall into the river at the same time, who will you save firstly? Looking forward to your answers.

Tough question. The one who raises this question just wants to start a fight. If she asks me this question, I will require her to answer me one question too "If your mom and I fall into the river at the same time, who will you save firstly?"

PS: she knows that I can't swim.

Apr 6, 2011 17:51	#65
GUESTRISH	you are so right I am living with my mother in law and mind you she is treating me like I don't know nothing like house chores, cooking and especially treating me like an idiot.She is such a stage mother also to my husband.always checking on him.and she doesn't allowed me to cook for my husband.it should be just her....

Apr 6, 2011 17:53	#66
GUEST74143	very true

Apr 7, 2011 04:29

#67

CHERRY07
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Originally Posted by GUESTRISH

you are so right I am living with my mother in law and mind you she is treating me like I don't know nothing like house chores, cooking and especially treating me like an idiot.She is such a stage mother also to my husband.always checking on him.and she doesn't allowed me to cook for my husband.it should be just her....

Maybe she just thinks that you doesn't do it better than her. That's why she does it on her own.

Jun 28, 2011 04:35

#68

GUEST1988

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Originally Posted by JIMMYB

Well, here is a question for you all. If your wife and your mom fall into the river at the same time, who will you save firstly? Looking forward to your answers.

I really want to know who was the first one to raise this question? I will get him and throw him into the river. He/she might not know his question has destroyed how many families.

Girls, wake up. Don't use this stupid question to test if your husband loves you or not. I really do not want to see you break your family personally.

Jun 28, 2011 04:36

#69

GUEST2530

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Originally Posted by JIMMYB

Well, here is a question for you all. If your wife and your mom fall into the river at the same time, who will you save firstly? Looking forward to your answers.

Jul 5, 2011 10:36

#70

GUEST54144

I am sailing in the same boat but now not without an anchor though.

I am my parent's only son. As such I felt that it is my moral duty to take care of their old age. Religious dogma also dictates the same. Being a young doctor, I am also aware of the increasing old age health problems that include a cranky and adamant disposition.
My first wife divorced me after attempting to coerce me to live separately with her through false multiple litigations.
My second wife also walked off with a month old daughter. Reason - that I could not make multiple establishments owing to non-affordability following difference in opinion between her and my mother.
Now I wonder whether it is safe to rescue my wife from drowning first than my mother.
But now I think, it is wiser not to experiment and keep one's wife separetely from day one of marriage. OR one should not marry if the man cannot afford separate establishments.
However, it is also a duty to take care of one's wife as well, given that she is no more a young woman but a mother of a child.
But if she walks off without giving scope for a chance, then indeed man is the VICTIM.
Though it is not possible for any man to forget his ex-wife, coz afterall she was a part of the man's life in whom he saw her as the best and most beautiful woman in the world.
It is indeed a very tough choice. OR is it often wise not to mary at all. Live-in-relationships???

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