Chinese lovers don't believe forever love?

Chinese lovers don't believe forever love?
Mar 18, 2008 03:14
guestlove	Today I read a report from a newpaper, which relates to people's views toward love. Of those polled, they are from 20 cities in five continents. Most surprising is that the report tells Chinese lovers don't believe forever love. On contrary, those foreigners almost believe forever love though the result is not what they expect sometimes. I doubted the result and made a search on the internet. Another survey "Do you believe in forever love?" shows that about 60 percent respondents don't believe forever love and most are girls. One girl wrotes:" I believe in forever love when I was in school. After working, my belief starts to change because I have seen too many lovers around me depart. At present, it is hard for me to believe that there is forever love in the world." Is this true? What are your attitude toward love? Here are some other results from the report ( I just sum them up): No.1 Those lovers in big cities care much about their personal space. No.2 The Sino-Foreign lovers have a shallow understanding of love. They care about culture combination but lack of deeper communication. No.3 Age is no problem. Sometimes, it makes a harmonious relationship. No.4 Those childhood sweethearts will come accross more troubles in their relationship. No.5 Those lovers who have a close relationship both in their life and work have a stable and lasting love relationship.

Mar 18, 2008 03:14

guestlove

Today I read a report from a newpaper, which relates to people's views toward love. Of those polled, they are from 20 cities in five continents. Most surprising is that the report tells Chinese lovers don't believe forever love. On contrary, those foreigners almost believe forever love though the result is not what they expect sometimes. I doubted the result and made a search on the internet. Another survey "Do you believe in forever love?" shows that about 60 percent respondents don't believe forever love and most are girls. One girl wrotes:" I believe in forever love when I was in school. After working, my belief starts to change because I have seen too many lovers around me depart. At present, it is hard for me to believe that there is forever love in the world."

Is this true? What are your attitude toward love?

Here are some other results from the report ( I just sum them up):

No.1 Those lovers in big cities care much about their personal space.

No.2 The Sino-Foreign lovers have a shallow understanding of love. They care about culture combination but lack of deeper communication.

No.3 Age is no problem. Sometimes, it makes a harmonious relationship.

No.4 Those childhood sweethearts will come accross more troubles in their relationship.

No.5 Those lovers who have a close relationship both in their life and work have a stable and lasting love relationship.

Mar 18, 2008 03:30	#1
GARYKINKADE Points: Join Date: Jan 8, 2008 Status: Offline	In this fast-paced world (too much to see and do) people do not appear to be as dependent on their mate as in the past.

Mar 18, 2008 20:57

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In modern times, young people suffers much pressure from their jobs and lives, especially in big cities. Burdening such heavy pressure, they have become very practical. That is why so many girls require a house before getting married. In colleges, many lovers break up when they graduate. At that time, they realize that it is impossible for the two who works and live in different cities. Compared with love, living is more important.

Mar 19, 2008 20:20	#3
JIMMYB Points: Join Date: Feb 7, 2007 Status: Offline	"Those lovers in big cities care much about their personal space." Couldn't agree any more. Some wives want to know everything about their husbands. After their husbands get home, they cross-examine their husbands. Where did you go? Why did you come back late? Sometimes, they even sneak a look at their husbands' cellphones.Would you marry such a woman?

Mar 19, 2008 22:52	#4
LIONPOWER Points: Join Date: Dec 11, 2006 Status: Offline	Really, here you are not telling about 'Love" but physical connection.

Mar 20, 2008 22:16	#5
BBQQ Points: Join Date: Feb 7, 2007 Status: Offline	"Really, here you are not telling about 'Love" but physical connection." Lion, what is your understanding of love? It seems that you pay much attention to spiritual level of love.

Mar 22, 2008 12:51

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spiritual level of love? very difficult.
Out of my business net work, i worked with under privileged children. Some foreign organization teach them from their childhood, talent girls after 8 plus admitted to their Electronics department to teach them Electronics. I prefer them to my company, also teach them in my company too to make a skill worker. I gathered knowledge from them, what life is? I realize spiritual level from them.

Mar 22, 2008 19:49	#7
SHESGOTTOBE Points: Join Date: Nov 23, 2007 Status: Offline	How nice, Lion. ^_^ I also believe that there is a kind of love that is higher than just for two people of the opposite sex.

Mar 22, 2008 21:32	#8
LIONPOWER Points: Join Date: Dec 11, 2006 Status: Offline	Yes, SHE That love inspire us to live in this earth.

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