Criteria for ideal spouses

Criteria for ideal spouses
Apr 9, 2008 02:07
BBQQ Points: Join Date: Feb 7, 2007 Status: offline	Here are some criteria for assessing an ideal spouse, You can measure yourself and your spouse. An ideal wife 1. She can quickly perceive her husband’ hobby and taste 2. She must be lovely, meek and gentle. 3. Daily stay with her can bring the sense of newly married couple 4. Good at home economics, she can arrage everything well. 5. She is smart, but never plays petty tricks. 6. She is able to show her understanding and sympathy for almost everything in daily lives. 7. She is thrifty, but not mean. 8. She is eloquent. 9. She is not showy, but natural and graceful. 10. She is cultured. An ideal husband 1.He must smile as often as possible, meanwhile he need to be honest and prudent 2.He enjoys work and is capable of keeping harmony of the family. 3.He is very sensitive to his wife’s concern and anxiety 4.He can exclude his wife from insecurity 5.He must be compassionate 6.He is brisk and gentlemanly. 7.He must be broadminded. 8.He can keep up with times. 9.He must be filial and respect the elder, amicable to the junior. 10. Better not stay overnight outside of home. 11.He must be merciful and kind.

Apr 9, 2008 02:07

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Here are some criteria for assessing an ideal spouse, You can measure yourself and your spouse.

An ideal wife
1. She can quickly perceive her husband’ hobby and taste
2. She must be lovely, meek and gentle.
3. Daily stay with her can bring the sense of newly married couple
4. Good at home economics, she can arrage everything well.
5. She is smart, but never plays petty tricks.
6. She is able to show her understanding and sympathy for almost everything in daily lives.
7. She is thrifty, but not mean.
8. She is eloquent.
9. She is not showy, but natural and graceful.
10. She is cultured.

An ideal husband
1.He must smile as often as possible, meanwhile he need to be honest and prudent
2.He enjoys work and is capable of keeping harmony of the family.
3.He is very sensitive to his wife’s concern and anxiety
4.He can exclude his wife from insecurity
5.He must be compassionate
6.He is brisk and gentlemanly.
7.He must be broadminded.
8.He can keep up with times.
9.He must be filial and respect the elder, amicable to the junior.
10. Better not stay overnight outside of home.
11.He must be merciful and kind.

Apr 9, 2008 19:58	#1
SUMMERSNOW Points: Join Date: Dec 19, 2007 Status: Offline	What is "ideal"? The ideal type never exists.

Apr 11, 2008 09:39	#2
GRIZ326 Points: Join Date: Jun 12, 2006 Status: Offline	BBQQ, can you write those out in Chinese characters, please? It would be nice to discuss these criteria with my gal. Actually, they make better guidelines for behavior of a wife or husband than a criteria. If every husband and wife kept these guidelines in their pocket and read them every day...both husband and wife would be happier. :-)

Apr 11, 2008 21:55	#3
GURTY Points: Join Date: Feb 8, 2007 Status: Offline	理想妻子 1 明晰伴侣爱好 2温柔贤惠，不失可爱 3 朝夕相处，如若新婚 4 善于理财，里里外外一把手 5 聪明，但不工于心计 6 明于事理，富有同情心 7 节约，但不吝啬 8 口才好 9 清新自然，姿态优雅，但不做作 10富有教养

Apr 11, 2008 22:24	#4
GARYKINKADE Points: Join Date: Jan 8, 2008 Status: Offline	It is with deep regret to say that neither my wife or I have met all of the criteria. However, we are continuing to improve as time passes. By the way BBQQ, a very nice list.

Apr 11, 2008 23:37	#5
GRIZ326 Points: Join Date: Jun 12, 2006 Status: Offline	Thank you Gurty, it would be good to discuss the criteria for a husband too. It takes two to make a good life together :-)

Apr 12, 2008 01:03	#6
WESTNORWOODGAS Points: Join Date: Jun 22, 2007 Status: Offline	I think my wife Jing and myself both meet these criteria although I didn't really seek this criteria in her to be honest, I agree with Griz it really does two to make a good life together. Alan

Apr 12, 2008 22:17	#7
SHESGOTTOBE Points: Join Date: Nov 23, 2007 Status: Offline	As they say, no one is perfect, therefore no perfect mate. It probably boils down to how much imperfection one can accept.

Apr 14, 2008 11:23	#8
WOLFRENJIE Points: Join Date: Apr 8, 2008 Status: Offline	this criterion is difficult to everybody .anyway I will keep it in my mind and try to become a ideal husband .

Apr 20, 2008 22:45	#9
ICEBLUE Points: Join Date: Aug 30, 2007 Status: Offline	No,.5 & No.6 seem a little demanding for a woman. Men might be not that magnanimous.

Apr 21, 2008 10:40	#10
CARLOS Points: Join Date: Sep 10, 2007 Status: Offline	Sorry, Lao Po, must say again that maybe You could have chosen better. Carlos

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