| What are you gonna do if you find your BF/GF date with other girls/boys secretly? | |
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| Apr 16, 2008 02:36 |   |
 | A newspaper reports that a boy in a college in Dalian has been talking about love with seven girls simultaneously for a year and hasn’t been discovered by his girlfriends. After it was exposed, he even asked the psychologist to help him choose one of the seven girls to be his real girlfriend. Being asked why he dated with seven girls, he said that he didn’t want to hurt them. If he refused them, they would feel painful and this was what he didn’t want to see. The public condemned him and called that he was a liar who just took advantage of the seven girls. What do you think of this guy? If you were one of the seven girls, what were you gonna do, to break up with him? I heard that some girls would forgive her BF and give him another chance if he promises that he wouldn’t do it again. Will you forgive your BF? For me, I will say "byebye" to him because I don't want to spend my life with a liar who just takes advantage of my feeings. |
| Apr 16, 2008 09:19 | #1 |
| Well I'm a runnin' down the road tryin to loosen my load, I got 7 women on my mind...4 they wanna own me, 2 they wanna stone me, 1 says she's a friend of mine... |
| Apr 16, 2008 10:06 | #2 |
| Well I'm a runnin' down the road tryin to loosen my load, I got 7 women on my mind...4 they wanna own me, 2 they wanna stone me, 1 says she's a friend of mine... Take it easy by The Eagles? Alan |
| Apr 16, 2008 10:54 | #3 |
| One of my favorite Eagles tunes...... That behavior was called "playing the field" when I was a boy. There is really nothing wrong with it if you are just going to the movies or getting an ice cream soda. It is another matter if you are talking love & marriage with 7 gals all at once. That makes the guy a scoundrel. |
| Apr 16, 2008 11:06 | #4 |
| Anybody been to Winslow , Arizona lately? |
| Apr 16, 2008 11:15 | #5 |
| Well, I was there last year and stood on a street corner , but no girl in a flat bed Ford ever tried to pick me up. A complete bust. |
| Apr 16, 2008 20:09 | #6 |
| He is totally a liar. He just cheated on the seven girls. "Being asked why he dated with seven girls, he said that he didn’t want to hurt them. If he refused them, they would feel painful and this was what he didn’t want to see. " Totally nonsense! If he really didn't want to hurt them, he should refuse them as quickly as he could. Perhaps, the girls who has been refused might feel sad. But I believe she will recover soon. If he didn't say NO to them, they must have illusion about him. As time goes on, they will suffer a lot if the boy dumps them. If you find your BF/GF dates with other girls/boys secretly, that means that they have lost the interest in you. What you should do is "say byebye" to him/her. Don't believe him/her if he/she tells you that he/she just plays with other girls or boys. At least, it proves that he is unfaithful to love. |
| Apr 22, 2008 22:19 | #7 |
| "What are you gonna do if you find your BF/GF date with other girls/boys secretly?" I’ll talk to him and tell him that that is not the way I want the relationship to be, so we will have to end ours. No need to beat around the bush. Then, I’ll sincerely wish that he finds whatever it is he’s looking for. Then, I will go on with my life. ^_^ |
| Apr 23, 2008 20:45 | #8 |
| "Then, I’ll sincerely wish that he finds whatever it is he’s looking for. Then, I will go on with my life." SHESGOTTOBE, that will be a good choice. I am curious that you can forgive him in a short period, because women can't forgive their boyfriends until they find their new boyfriends. |
| Apr 23, 2008 21:19 | #9 |
| "SHESGOTTOBE, that will be a good choice. I am curious that you can forgive him in a short period, because women can't forgive their boyfriends until they find their new boyfriends." Thanks, JimmyB, but a new boyfriend is not a prerequisite to forgiveness. The sooner I forgive, the sooner I can move on. I don't have to keep hanging on and being resentful. “Forgiveness is for you, not for others.” ~~ forgot who said it. LOL! ^_^” |
| Apr 27, 2008 21:52 | #10 |
| LOL, you are so kind, SHESGOTTOBE. That man who chooses you must feel honoured and content. “Forgiveness is for you, not for others.” Agree! Being resentful only hurts yourself. Thus, if this really happens to you, just say bye-bye to him/her and keep moving on your life. |
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