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Why do they want to date old westerners?
Jun 18, 2008 03:37
guestman I came across this question when reading newspaper. A Swedish guy raises this question in his short essay. In the essay, he says that he has seen a lot of beautiful Chinese girls date old westerners but he can't understand why those pretty ladies prefer to find old westerners. Being a Chinese man, I have the same doubt. Beautiful ladies, why do you want to date with old westerners?
Jun 18, 2008 04:38
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Did the Swedish guy assume that just because he saw an old western guy with a young Chinese girl they where out on a date?
I spent a few days recently in Shanxi province and traveled with a Chinese girl. She was there to help facilitate a couple of meetings for me nothing more.
I’d need to see exactly what this bloke wrote to be able to comment more.
Dodger.
Jun 18, 2008 19:54
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It's a personal decision. Whatever their reason, I think it is their business. Why should we be bothered by their reasons?
Jun 18, 2008 21:00
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I have heard about the topic. It is said that the author is a Swedish woman who currently lives in Shanghai. Ditto Dodger, I need to read the original text before giving my comment.
Jun 19, 2008 02:24
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GUEST14252 They choose to marry older westerners for 2 reasons....financial security for them & their family & the husbands life expectancy is short!
Jun 19, 2008 05:56
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Young Chinese woman enjoy the company of older Western men for a numbers of reasons, including: 1) older western men don't spit every twenty minutes and then expect you to kiss them; 2) older western men don't urinate in public and then expect you to hold hands with them; 3) older western men won't choose mommy first and their woman second; and 4) older western men appreciate the company of beautiful women, and treat these woman like the ladies they are.

Jun 19, 2008 15:39
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Hmmm..........interesting.
Jun 19, 2008 20:20
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it could be any reason that you can imagine, so why bother the reasons.

Dodger or anybody who is from Aus., I am intererested in how you look at this unusually combination with between and Mr. Murdoch, Australian Media tycoon(78) and Deng, Wen Di (40), a tall and talented girl with ordinary apperance and low profile from NorthEast chian

the murdochs and their younger daughter, Chloe.

Jun 19, 2008 22:00
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"They choose to marry older westerners for 2 reasons....financial security for them & their family & the husbands life expectancy is short!"

GUEST14252, the westerners' life expectancy is shorter than oriental people? It is true that some girls get married with foreigner for mony and green card. But not all girls have tihs intention.
Jun 19, 2008 22:34
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I have found the article. It is quite interesting. Jonna Wibelius, the author, put her insight into the issue from the perspective of a western woman.

A picture from her blog:
"Why not date a Chinese guy? They even tie your shoe laces for you? Try getting a western guy to do this and he'll be long gone." --Jonna Wibelius

Jun 20, 2008 00:59
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Coolsprings,
Mr. Murdock is really old, I’m just old.
What do I think of his current marriage? I try not to judge the actions of people that I don’t know.
50 years ago 60 was considered old but know perhaps just the beginning of a new cycle.
As for comment from Sweden; isn’t this the country that has legislation that now makes it mandatory for male to piss sitting down?
Dodger.
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