GUEST97171 | I would like to first note that Japanese people do not tend to use pretend names when speaking to Western natives from Europe, the US, Canada, Australia, South Africa, or New Zealand. Nor do Saudi Arabians, Iranians, Finnish people, Icelanders, people from Thailand and Laos, Brazil, the Netherlands, Cameroon, Latvia, or Uzbekistan. I could go on with the list of countries of folks who do not use pretend names, but those should illustrate my point. I teach ESL to people from all over the world including the above countries-- only Chinese speakers (Taiwan especially, China, some from Malaysia, occasionally from Korea-- that's the exception) go throughout life and the world pretending they have another name.
My theory is that 1) They were asked to do this by Western business people, schools and, most prominently, teachers of English 2) They like to do it because it gives them a secret or alternate identity-- and they like that idea 3) It makes them feel more accepted 4) Many are stuck up about Westerners mispronouncing their names 5) It then becomes habit to use a pretend name.
I don't like it when teachers ask them to choose 'an English name'. First of all, most so-called names are not English-- they're Western-- they come from Greece, they come from Latin, etc. they evolved over centuries and centuries and they are more aptly 'Western names.' It tells me a teacher is lazy if they cannot try to pronounce a Chinese name. It transfers culture-- in ways that is offensive to some (and that is growing) on both sides-- Chinese and Western-- and it's unnecessary altogether. Yes, Chinese names sometimes don't translate into phonetic letters accurately. Yes, the names are often very difficult to say. That said, I have yet to meet a Chinese native who has ever said even some simple names accurately-- the accent is ALWAYS there. WHO CARES?
I always ask my Chinese students to use their real names. Most continue with, "My English name is______." No... I mean your REAL name. Your actual name you were blessed with at birth. Then they'll say, "My Chinese name is______" as though the simple thought of distinguishing between 'real' and 'pretend' is something they really, really must reach for. Not quite sure why that is rather than the brainwashing of movies and music from the US and international teachers who mean well, want to be fun ("Let's choose an "English name!!!"). When my students from China say, "My English name is...." I do like to let them know the origins of those names because history and culture is important to EVERYONE. Not just people from India or Navajo lands or from the savanna in Africa. Culture is important to everyone. To me and to Chinese.
Imagine if millions and millions and millions of people in the US and Canada and Europe were all adopting "Chinese names" from Japan and Vietnam and China. Absorbing Asian culture, etc. constantly. Over time, it definitely takes a toll. I'm definitely not a fan of using pretend names. |