GUEST44227 | I am a southern Chinese girl, now living in the US and I take offense to all the comments we are rather dark and do not pay on dates, and basically everything else. First I would like to say you cannot generalize an entire race, even if you've interacted with that race before, because there are people of all types in every race. Pretty, ugly, clean, dirty, lazy, hard working, slutty, conservative, independent, submissive, and so on.
But I would like to clarify that I can cook and I think I'm rather clean. Also I live in a high Asian tourist attraction spot (Hawaii) and I do not think my fashion sense is as bad as the Japanese tourist women I see all the time, even my white stepfather says so. Like really, a hoodie w/ a maxi skirt then socks with crocs?
And of course, there are variants, but I am naturally rather pale, and I have natural double eyelids. I'm also short, but that is because during my growing years, I did not sleep for more than 6 hrs per day usually, and I never drank milk, because my mom is 167 cm. Also I think of relationships as partnership, so I don't expect my dates to pay all the time. I'm working towards a successful career of my own and would hate to rely on my future husband for all my expenses. Yes, I would like someone who is successful, but only about as much as I am at least, and gold digging isn't really my thing. And I'm also rather conservative, in both my dress and sexual habits.
And about plastic surgery: I don't really like plastic surgery, I mean, isn't make up already enough? I know I'm not the prettiest, but I also don't like to wear makeup often, because if you date someone , you're gonna have to reveal your bare face sometime, why not on the first meeting, so they don't think you get uglier w/out makeup, but prettier w/ make up. And I have a korean classmate (a girl) and she has rather small eyes, w/out double eyelids. She's become obsessed with her outward appearance lately, clothes and such, and heavily edits her "selfies". Also I think she's kind of bitchy.
And I'm not really into the Korean beauty thing. Honestly the girls look really fake in a weird way, like they look like dolls/babies. The circle lenses are freaky and they are too obsessed with looking young. Which I don't get, like why would a 20 something yr wold women want to have the features of a 3 month old?
As for dating preferences, I don't have much experience (as I've said, conservative) but I think it's not what race you get with, but what type of person you get with. So I think Japanese, Chinese, and Korean men can be all attractive, but also all of them can be ugly. Just depends.
Damn that was a long post |