Chinese women after american men

Chinese women after american men
Jan 4, 2009 21:15	#11
JIMMYB Points: Join Date: Feb 7, 2007 Status: Offline	I am wondering how the Chinese culture would view this woman breaking up an american marriage. LAKANA, those women who break other people's marriage are considered to be "vamps", at least in my eyes. Chinese people call them Hu Li Jing (Fox Spirit). Unfortunately, some men give those vamps chances. Many men raise mistresses outside. Those mistresses are fox spirits. They break other people's marriages. But men also have faults. "One hand alone can't clap".

Jan 4, 2009 21:15

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I am wondering how the Chinese culture would view this woman breaking up an american marriage.

LAKANA, those women who break other people's marriage are considered to be "vamps", at least in my eyes. Chinese people call them Hu Li Jing (Fox Spirit). Unfortunately, some men give those vamps chances. Many men raise mistresses outside. Those mistresses are fox spirits. They break other people's marriages. But men also have faults. "One hand alone can't clap".

Jan 6, 2009 08:02	#12
GUEST54109	The husband will say it is your fault I cheated ‘coz you’re not here with me. He believes in his eyes that he didn't do anything wrong. The wife who is not strong enough will believe him.

Jan 6, 2009 19:40	#13
CHERRY07 Points: Join Date: Mar 23, 2008 Status: Offline	The husband will say it is your fault I cheated ‘coz you’re not here with me. This is just his excuse. As long as you get married, you have to be responsible for your wife. Loyalty is the essence. " you’re not here with me" is not the excuse that he finds other women. On the other hand, such men have no morality concepts.

May 31, 2009 19:40

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GUESTBEIBEI

I am so sorry for hear that, I am Chinese woman, and my boyfriend is American person,
The problem for you, I think there are several reasons, First,about money, Second about curious. The third reson that i think because of most Chinese man is not healthy, they don't like sports, hates baths, don't respect for women.
I admit that many Chinese girls, they do not know enough to be respect yourself, respect others and not know of healthy living. But everything that happens, the reason is multiple.
So, be strong,Choose happiness of life is everybody's right!

Jun 28, 2009 11:54

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GUEST94164

Yes, there are many young women in China go after Elite men, not only American, for the money and status. Here are some of the reasons:
1. The difference between rich and poor become very big, bigger than most capital country, despite the fact that China is still political communist or socialist. It is more very market oriented now; The income inequity index stands high as 23 (top 10%'s total is 23 times of lower 10%), American is 15, most Europe country is between 6 and 10, Japan is very low - 4.4 ;
2. The job market competition is so heated and any disadvantage would be visible. My sister in law spent a long time looking for job since she is married without child, that means the hiring company could pay up to 4 months salary for maternal leave by law if they hired a women who had child in very future; so women would take other advantage by getting elite men's help. Such as taking mistress position with career advance benefit;
3. Since the virtually collapse of the communist concept - individual share wealth and we are all big family (which I personal think is good it just the matter of practice) there is nothing to replace it, such as religions. Most Chinese do not believe in god, although Confusions, Dao are still the morel standard of Chinese.
I am Chinese female who lives in USA. Our husbands would have the similar "haracement" if they are assigned the duty in China, many of these girls are young, beautiful and talented, they wanted to be discovered among competitors so they often take aggressive step.

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