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Mar 23, 2009 18:20	#11
ARTHURD Points: Join Date: Mar 16, 2009 Status: Offline	Quote: Originally Posted by GUEST85243 In China, the ownership of the land is the country or collectivity, people who owned land is impossible, unless he/she contracts the land from the collectivity. Well I don't know if "own" is the right word but they do have land. Quote: Originally Posted by JIMMYB ARTHURD, you must know this "Birds of a feather flock together". It is very similar to a Chinese idiom "物以类聚，人以群分". Since she had friends who have done this before, I am wondering if she will do this to you. Why did she cheat her last boyfriend? If she didn't love him, why not tell him and break up with him? Honesty is very important. She ha... I did ask her about her friend doing that and she turned it around on me since I have a friend who cheats on his wife. I really don't know everything about this Bangladesh guy but he calls her sometimes and she can be pretty mean to him. I really don't know why she was with him since he doesn't have any money but she isn't really interested in my money and says if she wanted a rich man she could probably get one.

Mar 23, 2009 18:20

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Originally Posted by GUEST85243

In China, the ownership of the land is the country or collectivity, people who owned land is impossible, unless he/she contracts the land from the collectivity.

Well I don't know if "own" is the right word but they do have land.

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Originally Posted by JIMMYB

ARTHURD, you must know this "Birds of a feather flock together". It is very similar to a Chinese idiom "物以类聚，人以群分". Since she had friends who have done this before, I am wondering if she will do this to you. Why did she cheat her last boyfriend? If she didn't love him, why not tell him and break up with him? Honesty is very important. She ha...

I did ask her about her friend doing that and she turned it around on me since I have a friend who cheats on his wife. I really don't know everything about this Bangladesh guy but he calls her sometimes and she can be pretty mean to him. I really don't know why she was with him since he doesn't have any money but she isn't really interested in my money and says if she wanted a rich man she could probably get one.

Mar 23, 2009 20:41

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Originally Posted by ARTHURD

I really don't know everything about this Bangladesh guy but he calls her sometimes and she can be pretty mean to him. I really don't know why she was with him since he doesn't have any money but she isn't really interested in my money and says if she wanted a rich man she could probably get one.

I really can't understand her. Her last boyfriend was not rich but she was still with him. However, she was mean to him sometimes. What's wrong?

ARTHURD, she hasn't broken up with her Bangladesh guy, right? If so, she is sitting on two chairs. Do you think it is fair for you and her Bangladesh boyfriend? Can you bear a woman who still has relationship with her last boyfriend?

If I was put into this situation, I would quit as soon as possible. Or at least, she has to make a choice between you and her Bangladesh guy.

Just my comments. You are the one who should make a choice. Good luck to you.

Mar 23, 2009 20:45	#13
MARRIE Points: Join Date: Jan 7, 2008 Status: Offline	Apparently, this is a made-up story. If you have talents in writing fiction, I think SIVA or CHRISTINE can add a new head for you. Lands I heard are being privatized in China. If I owned 1 acre in suburban or outskirts of Shanghai, I can buy a lux house here in North America by cash.

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