I believe most Asian women marry for convenience but ended loving the person if they are honest. It's a practical approach to get away from poverty but Asian women are honest, hardworking, very family-oriented, and very responsible. It's like striking gold if you meet this kind. They are not really after for your money but look for a better life outside their country. Mostly educated, no difficulty communicating. There are lots of them.
Apr 19, 2015 07:22
#102
GUEST83215
As an Anglo Saxon Australian who has been married to same (a terrible experience) then partnered a Taiwanese Australian significantly younger, (I broke off with her ONLY because she was too wonderful and deserved a younger man), then married a mainland Chinese woman in Austrslia, let me tell you this:
- the Taiwanese are deep, intelligent, loving and warm, but pretty tough too
- the Chinese, I imagined would be similar to the Taiwanese; how ignorant; 9 years of her non stop complaining about not enough money, followed by two years of lies and known infidelity. Having met many of her Chinese women friends in Australia and in China, and spoken to divorced Chinese men, ThIS is how they are. Don't be fooled; 'everything' happens, so long as they get away with it, they think its OK.
Apr 19, 2015 07:35
#103
GUEST83215
Having married a Chinese woman from mainland China in Australia, the 12 year experience has involved getting to know who she really is and also given me the opportunity to meet many of her friends and given the chance to have spoken to divorced Chinese men. This hastaught me:
1: These women have two faces
2: They will 'give you face' in public, with lots of smiles
3: They will treat you like rubbish at other times
4: They will constantly push you to spend 'lots' of money
5: They will blame you for misery in their life
6: They will cheat behind your back, thinking anything is OK if they can get away with it
7: They will use social media constantly, for large parts of every day, including using this to meet other men (asian of course)
8: They will cheat on you (infidelity) and then blame you when you eventually find out
Having spoken to many of her friends, and divorced Chinese men, this appears to be the norm for mainland Chinese women today. The 'other' face is pretty disastrous.
Dec 29, 2015 01:26
#104
GUEST63211
I English and was Married for 10 years to somebody from my own country. I work internationally in the Oil industry and had no idea anything was wrong at home. I would like to add that I had always been faithful and loving to my Wife. Nonetheless I returned home after a 6 weeks tour at work to find our Bank account as empty as our House. She had taken off with another Guy, no warning. She deserves an Oscar for the way She kept up appearances.
After the subsequent divorce and a couple of years I met a Vietnamese Girl in Singapore. She was from Hanoi, 5 years later and I could not be happier. At the end of the Day it does not matter where anybody is from and nobody has a crystal ball, you will meet the same good or bad in any country. But I will say that my Vietnamese Wife shows more respect, love and consideration than I ever got with my English Wife. Her family make a great fuss of us both when we visit and it becomes a huge family event. Personally speaking I could not be happier.