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Mar 20, 2012 02:24
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Me too. We usually go shopping together. Sometimes we go hiking and traveling if we're free.


Good memories! How time flies! We graduated 5 years ago. One of my dormmates went abroad for further study. I lost contact with him. Just saw his lovely baby several days ago. Another dormmate's child is nearly 2 years old.
Mar 20, 2012 08:21
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Many of my classmates have babies now.
Mar 20, 2012 20:40
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Many of my classmates have babies now.


Many of my classmates of high school and college have babies too. But I am still single. My parents give pressure on me. They ask me to get married soon. But I think that I am still young. More importantly, marriage is serious. I haven't prepared for it.
Mar 21, 2012 04:03
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Yes, marriage is holy and serious. Unless you find your Miss Right, don't give in. I'm on your back.
Mar 29, 2012 23:12
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Yes, marriage is holy and serious. Unless you find your Miss Right, don't give in. I'm on your back.


Thank you. Do you suffer much pressure from your parents? My friend told me "Whey you are single, they ask you to find a girlfriend. When you have a girlfriend, they ask you to get married. When you are married, they ask you to have a baby. Whey you have a baby, they do whatever they can to take care of your baby. They are your parents."

Parents always give their best to their children and never ask for rewards. I am grateful to them. But I can not get married for them. I just want to get married with someone I love.

Mar 30, 2012 05:57
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That seems the best choice for your parents and yourself. Wish you find someone you love as soon as possible.
Mar 30, 2012 21:07
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That seems the best choice for your parents and yourself. Wish you find someone you love as soon as possible.


My parents are farmers. They have some traditional concepts. It's difficult for them to change their concepts. By the way, I do not want to disappoint them. So I have to do my best to seek my Miss Right.

I guess that your parents are very open, right? Do they press on you?
Mar 31, 2012 03:28
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Sometimes. As soon as I say no, they will stop for a while, but continue to persuade me later. Hehe...
Mar 31, 2012 04:06
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Sometimes. As soon as I say no, they will stop for a while, but continue to persuade me later. Hehe...


Haha, you are in a similar situation like me. Sometimes, I felt upset when they pushed on me. Then I yelled at them and they stopped for a while. Honestly, I regret yelling at them. But I couldn't control myself at that moment.
Apr 2, 2012 05:35
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I undertand. Sometimes I did the same thing as you. So I regreted, too/
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