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Help....American man just engaged to Chinese woman here in USA on work visa
May 8, 2018 06:47
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GUEST74874 Been there... wasted a year. Got her an apartment, she was bored and sneak off to Denver to live in massage parlor. These girls want a green card and they want to work... sad life of loneliness ahead if you proceed. YOU GET TO WAIT FOR HER TO COME HOME every day! Wondering who she is having sex with, trust me.. no fun! If you are blinded like I was, at least get a prenump.. at least when she runs off, it won't be with what little money she left you! Good luck
Jun 17, 2018 16:32
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GUESTDARRELL Don’t get married , I know already it happen to me
Aug 18, 2018 05:31
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GUEST17211 I can counsel both of you.I can give you honest opinion one on one after.2257253721.
Sep 9, 2018 11:53
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I am very familiar with Chinese massage women. I know several who are married to older American men just for the green card. It is common practice for these women to be married to a man in China and scam American men for money to send home to their husband and children. The worst offending women are ones that came out from the villages of China. They have no identification cards. They marry and man in China to become legitimate (gain an identity). They have 1 or 2 children and then come to America, learn massage to gain access to lonely men and then scam them to send the money home. NEVER FALL FOR THEIR SOB STORY. I did but was fortunate enough to get my money back. Enjoy your massages but if they start to ask about your marrital status, or do you like Chinese women, or what work do you do.....RUN or never go to the same massage spa twice. Understand these women make $7,000 per month or more. They do not need your money. All this is first hand, true infoemation. I lived with the perfect Chinese massage girl for 18 months. I just learned that she told the other girls she worked with that she did not love the silly old man she was living with while she was having sex with other boyfriends while I thought she was working.
Sep 9, 2018 12:05
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It is the usual scam that Chinese women from outside the big cities come of age and move to the big cities. They have no birth record or identification. In order to get an identity they marry a chinese man and have 1 or 2 children. They are poor so she moves to America to work in massage and scam lonely men. I know this first hand because I fell for the same scam. She was perfect and 14 years younger than me. She would brag to her co-workers that she did not love the silly old man lived with and had sex with several other men while I thought she was at work. I did not give her any money and we were talking of marriage. It will hurt but my best advice is to throw her out and just go to different massage spas; not the same one every time. It always starts the same...are you married; do you like chinese women; what kind of work do you do. Trust me. My heart will be broken for a very long time. She just packed up the 2 or 3 items she kept at the house, never said a word and left. We never argued or fought. She must have got a better "deal" somewhere else.I am sorry for the hurt you are about to go through. It is better now than later. I will check this forum to see if you have other questions I can answer.
Jan 16, 2019 02:08
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GUEST43237 This is 2019 but nothing has changed. Your wife if she your wife works in a massage parlor massaging old, fat caucasian men. She may get a house fee per client but her money comes mainly from tips. The men who patronize her shop do not only go there for massage, a happy ending is expected and she is tipped on average $40.00 per client.
The women that work in these shops are in it for the money, Money rules!.
You are expected to support her in style while she can every once in a while blow some money shopping for expensive clothes, bags etc or visit a casino.
If you did marry, it might be for the green card and you may now be divorced. Hard to believe she will not want her children with her.
Apr 21, 2019 21:49
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GUEST14044 The original poster is laying face first in the sawdust of some smelly bar by now.

What a fool.

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Any woman working in a ‘massage parlour’ is selling sex for money.
You, are simply a means to an end.
Simple as that.

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I met and married a chinese lady from Sth-East Asia.
First thing I *had* to do was meet all the family.
Money was important, but it was a shared importance.
We both worked hard in the same government organisation, bought a house, had 3 children.

Later I had the opportunity to move to SE Asia for work.

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Where I live brothels/prostitution are legal.

99% of massage parlours are “happy ending” places, ie., hand job.
(why do guys pay for what they mostly do themselves for feee)

I have visited a number of brothels, and 98% of the girls are Asian.
Some are very boring; some are a lot of fun to be with.

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Anyone on a similar position to the original poster...

RUN AWAY, AS FAST AS YOU CAN
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